Yes, I know exactly how you are projecting you are feeling. As you are listening but you really are not. Yet, with our questions, you keep givinng more information that gives us more in our let us say diagnosis of the problem.
Yes *sigh*
Ok, the whole purpose of this is obviously self-defense.
I do not think that is true. I think it it about self confidence. You got scared. It made you think and worry. You think this is a bad thing. Only the last is wrong.
Getting scared is human. It is the sain thing to do. It also helps you if you act. You thought which is also good. You worried and want to make things better. This is good. Yet you might have found that in the end there is something you cannot do and no you asking for something that cannot happen. Which why we all sighed when you first posted and have continued to do so, but tried to help. You seem frustrated, yet still wanting to try. This is good. So please understand I am not attacking you personally. We here are trying to honstly help.
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I asked if there was a style that focuses on fending off multiple enemies and has a focus on external power.
You asked for multiple people. External Power and Internal Power. People told you there were many and got there in different paths. It always takes a long time. As with most people they do not want the long path they want the easy path. *sigh* Yes I beating this dead horse, but it really is a sigh point.
I appreciate every ones posts, all of them. My thing is, you never know what can happen, I can be at Walmart and get mugged.
Yes, at any moment somone can assasinate you. And there is nothing you can do. You can keep a low profile. You can have a good job and live in a good neighborhood and go places that are safe you lower your chances of being assaulted and or injured. But to take it to zero is not going to happen. To have the Magic that stops all pain and injury form ahppening is not going to happen.
I dont go anywhere that I believe would endanger my family. To give an example, my wife and I ordered some wings from a bar, she wanted to go in, but I decided to go in and pick them up instead. I got in paid the woman, and just sat there watching tv until they were done. Now in the background I hear "Hey we got 2 NEGROS" I was like what? So I turned around to try to get a glance at the guy and he was standing up next to this older black guy, then he looked at me. Then he said it again "aye aye, we got 2 negros" thats when I realized that me and the old guy were the only 2 black guys in the bar at the time. I wasnt really worried, but I had my guards up just in case.
Racism sucks. I have been called evey name in the book. It does hurt. I understand. Yet it is only up to you to decide if you will allow them to hurt you a little or a lot. Pity them and their stupidity, yes it is stupidity for ignorance is lack of knowledge, it is training and brain washing.
Did you raise your hands or just mental guards.
My initial thought was to knock this dude out, but then i probably would have gotten jumped or something,
Why attack him? For if you swing first it would be you in trouble with the law. Yes being jumped or something could have happened and then everyone could have stated you came in started trouble and press charges against. Walking away was the right thing to do and for more than one reason. Long term it was the better option for your families safety.
so I left went home ate the wings and started running through scenarios such as this in my head...
Yes, going home was good. Thinking was good. It is good. Keep it up.
Anyone can act without reason, I NEED to be prepared for that, I dont carry a gun, I dont carry a knife, and in that case if they wanted to do something I was not going to get to run away.
Being prepared is good. But as stated already by me and others, you cannot stop every possible situation. If you find away, you may find a way to have world peace.
So with all of that being said, my original question was formed. I take martial arts serious... its apart of me.
Good. Then train well. Find what you want, but put realistic expectations on it.
I train a small group. A few officers, and a soon to be officer. They have all said what we train is lethal and they have to roll it back to what is allowed by the law enforcement training mandates. I am not saying train with me. I am saying persepctive. One mans normal training could be lethal from another point of view. And yet there are some that say we do not take it far enough.
You need to look around and find what you want. The problem is it may be a distance off or the cost may be more than the rest. Always you have to decide what you can afford and what you really want. What you are willing to sacrafice for knowledge or gaining peace of mind.
*sigh*
TKD Sparring?
MMA Sport fighting?
Back alley fighting ?
So with rules or just going out and getting hurt or hurting others?
I love training, I love studying, and I'm educated, I have my degree in business management and working on another, but what does any of that mean if I can be taken out by a single bullet????
Good you have a degree in business management and working on another. Is it an Associates or Bachelors you and and what are you working on? And good work on what you have accomplished already and for continuing for more.
Education is a way of reducing risk. The mroe education you have the more likely you are to live in a safer neighborhood and work in a safer field and position and thereby reduce the risk of being shot. Like I have said I know people that the last time they had a confrontation was in kindergarten when someone pushed them down.
I repeat nothing is going to stop that assasination from a sniper rifle from a long distance. If you are the target by random or on purpose it is not going to get to 0 chance of happening. You can do things to reduce risk. If your family is really the issue and not that you like fighting and you want to prove something to yourself.
To make it fair, lets call it what it is, Yeah I'm trying to equip myself with a DEALY art, but its for survival means only... If need be I want to KNOW how to KILL someones with my hands and feet only.
I am concerned that you need to know how to KILL someone with your hands and or feet. There is a reason many gangs initiate with drive by shootings. It is much easier to pull the trigger of a gun while your eyes are closed then it is to walk up to someone and on purpose face to face take their life. Most people do not have the trait to just walk up to someone and do that.
I say go back and thinkg some more. Why are you wanting this? As I stated, I think you were scared (* which is a good thing *), and you thought about it (* which is a good thing *), and now you want to be safe (* which is a good thing *), yet, you want to have this magic result happen and make you safe (* this is a bad thiing in my opinion as it is unrealistic *).
Think about what you can do to reduce risk. Live that way. By life insurance. Repair your vehicles so they do not break down. Eat better food and continue to work out and be healthy. Live long and see your grand kids is a good plan. The plan to reduce risk is a good thing. Just do it realistically and look for goals other than just violence to attack as well.
I've studied TDK for 4 years, then moved onto JKD for about 6 months, then moved onto MMA I still do this for training purposes, but none of them seemed to meet my needs so far.
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Have you stopped your TKD? Which system? If you stopped why did you stop? What rank did you have?
What did you not like about JKD? With whom were you training?
MMA, is a good training workout. Are you happy here with your fighting? Is the training good for you? I understand it might not address the safety issues you have, but it might address the aggression you have presented here in your words. Having the outlet is not a bad thing, it can actually be a good thing. If you like it, you can continue to train it and work on the other aspects I have mentioned.
There was one though, after MMA I was able to try out for a school called ZENTAI. Its ninjutsu, nothings perfect but this school was legit. I even told my family that place is not a place you would go to to train for weight loss or anything like that, its straight "incapacitate the person in front of you." I was in brutal pain after my 1st day, but loved it... The only thing that scared me away was the expensive fees, so I've been searching for something similar with a lower price.
So you have left MMA as you stated after MMA?
If you really like the Zentai training location, it might be worth the cost. Only you can decide. How much is this path to safety, versus the others mentioned worth to you? which ones are long term and which are short term. Only you can decide yout path, and if the cost is worht it to you.