Lynne
Master of Arts
My daughter is 17 and received an instant message from a 16 year-old female friend whom I've forbid her to see. The girl, "J," was living with her 20 year-old boyfriend in an adjacent town. J is now back at home for the school year. You may have heard me speak of my neighbors - they have a lot of loud domestic disputes, a front yard full of cars, trash, etc. J's family rents a trailer on the property. I think they are all related somehow but not 100%.
At any rate, J came out as bisexual to my daughter and solicited her for sex. She also said her boyfriend (20) was turned on by girls with girls and they were looking for a partner. BULL-you-know-what! I imagine the man saw my daughter's pic on myspace and put J up to the solicitation. That's a likely scenario.
I had a feeling that because my daughter is 17 that nothing could be done. I was right about that. But what if they are/or start soliciting underage teenagers? At least the State Police have the man's myspace account information, his name, and the girl's name and address.
Personally, I would not let my 16 year old daughter date a 20 year old guy, much less move in with him! But I'm a prude as it were. Sheesh. J invited my daughter to come over and hang out because she had the house all to herself. Another Bull..... That could have been a setup for all I know.
I don't like wasting the Police's time, but hey, you never know what else might be going on, or what could happen in the future.
What would you have done? (Honestly, I feel like beating the crap out of both the girl and the man.) Think I'll go practice my form and make those punches really count.
At any rate, J came out as bisexual to my daughter and solicited her for sex. She also said her boyfriend (20) was turned on by girls with girls and they were looking for a partner. BULL-you-know-what! I imagine the man saw my daughter's pic on myspace and put J up to the solicitation. That's a likely scenario.
I had a feeling that because my daughter is 17 that nothing could be done. I was right about that. But what if they are/or start soliciting underage teenagers? At least the State Police have the man's myspace account information, his name, and the girl's name and address.
Personally, I would not let my 16 year old daughter date a 20 year old guy, much less move in with him! But I'm a prude as it were. Sheesh. J invited my daughter to come over and hang out because she had the house all to herself. Another Bull..... That could have been a setup for all I know.
I don't like wasting the Police's time, but hey, you never know what else might be going on, or what could happen in the future.
What would you have done? (Honestly, I feel like beating the crap out of both the girl and the man.) Think I'll go practice my form and make those punches really count.