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Despairbear
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There are singles clubs to looks for "chicks" a dojo is for training nothing else.
Despair Bear
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Originally posted by girlychuks
Never looking at my nunchuku the same way again-Cathy
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Originally posted by girlychuks
Never looking at my nunchuku the same way again-Cathy
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Um, I think you've inadvertantly (or not ) planted a very distracting image in the heads of many of the board's members. CENSOR! Oh, Censor!
I agreeOriginally posted by Cthulhu
A student's or instructor's sexuality really would matter little to me, as long as things are kept professional and respectful.
A student/instructor relationship has the potential for disaster written all over. The danger of favoritism and bias will always be present, and the other students may suspect these things are happening, whether they are or not, leading to resentment.
However, it all depends on the maturity and professionalism of the people involved. If such a relationship did occur, as I'm sure they often do, I would suggest discretion for a period of time before revealing the relationship to the rest of the school. This could help dispel any suspicion of favoritism.
Sort of on the same topic, my instructor became involved (coincidentally) with a student's ex-girlfriend. This led to much resentment on the student's part, so much so that he left the school. That was a shame, since he was fairly promising. I think the immaturity of the student was the major problem in this case, however, as he was fairly young and emotional.
Cthulhu