I hope to teach more than I have so far. Its been sporadic but finally have a small following on one night of all ages-family classes. I wanted to teach women to encourage more to come into my dojang. While I still want to teach women, I'm not so sure about teaching in this dojang much longer. I am the oldest and highest ranking woman, therefore a role model. I feel like I'm the glue that holds the women together anyway. I wish they would all find their inner strength to overcome obstacles. But in looking back, each one was given an "out" in breaking so therefore the toughness is not there. Most are passed no matter how mediocre they are or how little they practice. One -three times (hours) a week is all that is necessary to eventually become a black belt. I don't think they even trained for their breaks - just got to their tests and couldn't do it. So, I am not sure that the element which I got out of Taekwondo, the empowerment, is something I can give them. I'm not sure they would even stay in it for exercise if they had to go by themselves. (I do) I think a certain "drive" has to be there. But since, I am not the master, owner of the school, I can only lead by example. Not getting many followers down that path though. Most opt for the easy way and are told it is "harder", so therefore believe and don't want to look at the facts.
I tried an stretching class this week. I offered it for free, three days, different times. I only got 5 people. My flexibility improved alot though, from from all the extra stretching. After watching a BB test with absolutely terrible flexibility shown, I hoped to show everyone the way to help themselves. If there had been enough interest, I would have had more classes.
Maybe its just a sign of the times, people want easy. I grew up in Nebraska and had it hard. The work ethic was different then too. So I grew up as an overachiever rather than risk underworking. I think the majority of martial artists on this forum are overachievers too from reading their posts about preparing for tests or asking questions about everything that is involved with their art. And those that have the passion to find this forum, have found themselves, and the empowerment that comes with martial arts. But I have come to the conclusion it isn't in my power to "teach" passion. TW