So since you call the guy a loser I'm assuming he wasn't worthy of the promotion. I'd be willing to bet money was involved in both of these situations. Your GM basically blew you off Glenn. A 'do as I say, not as I do' thing. That's crap. And you swallowed it. Why? So your next promotion wouldn't be in jeopardy? So you wouldn't rock the boat? So you wouldn't be black balled? And then you have the gall to suggest we respect people like this? Bow down to them or be the first to jump to attention when they enter the room. Clearly we have different values on these issues.
What I learned from that exchange was that my instructor really didn't care about rank or promotions, at least not to the micro management level that others seem to care about it. It put a whole new perspective on the whole rank thing for me. It wasn't a do as I say and not as I do, because he has never questioned any of my promotion recommendations. So he really has a point. He doesn't question me, and so why should I question him? As for the fear type concerns that you raised "jeopardize future promotions, being black balled, etc." that really isn't the dynamic that I have with any of my instructors, ever. Like I have stated previously, I feel no insecurity about being kicked out, black balled or whatever else from any of my teachers, anymore than I have those kinds of fears from my parents. I don't have that sort of relationship with my teachers, and I don't have that sort of relationship with my parents.
It is quite clear that their 'perspective' is making money and chasing the almighty dollar in mass commercialism rather than integrity. From your own words I think you should have been even more careful. No offense intended Glenn, but I'm not buying what you're selling. I know that your doing your best to be the KKW answer man and give it all a good spin, but I truly feel they've sold you out. This isn't to say that all members or 'seniors' of the KKW are dishonest or act dishonorably but lets not white-wash those that are just for the sake of keeping the idea of the KKW alive and kicking. People can see through the 'damage control'.
This was my Hapkido teacher, so it really doesn't have anything to do with the Kukkiwon. I practice Hapkido as well and not just Kukki Taekwondo. As for their perspective, I would say that this particular teacher tends to give people what they expect. Some come to him wanting only rank. Others come to him wanting to learn deeply, everything that he has to offer. The martial arts, like anything else, really is about what you put into it. And it underlines really the whole point of the paper anyway, which is that in the end, it really does not matter what the number on your paper that you have, because who you are and what you know will always shine through, at least to the practitioners that I associate with. We rarely, if ever, discuss rank.
As for the other stuff you accuse me of, it really doesn't matter what my response will be because it is clear that you made up your mind about the Kukkiwon long before you even were a member of this board. If you don't like the Kukkiwon, then don't get their certification. And I don't expect you or anyone else to change your mind. That really isn't the point of these discussions, from my perspective. Rather, it is, like in every other aspect of the martial arts, simply another opportunity for self discovery.
I do find it interesting on some level though, that part of the claim of legitimacy for your instructor and your Kong Soo Do organization, is through his Kukkiwon certification, and by extension, the Kukkiwon certification of his instructor and his instructor's instructor. I think you stated something about not having it both ways, I might suggest that you also should consider whether that is something that you might consider refraining from yourself.
And there is no damage control, because no matter what you say, there will always be more people who recognize the value of Kukkiwon certification and will seek it out. Seven million and counting, and the number seems to be growing exponentially. If you don't want it, fine, because people who do want it goes down the block and around the corner.