Here's what I got.
Hereâs my plain-language answer:
No, I wouldnât tell her, âYouâll be my ex-wife.â Thatâs harsh, confusing, and doesnât help either of you grow.
Instead, Iâd say something like:
> âI imagined a future where we didnât stay together. It made me think about what could go wrong between us. I care about you, and I want to make sure weâre building something strong. Can we talk about that?â
That way, youâre not scaring her or blaming herâyouâre using what you saw to make the relationship better now. Youâre being honest, but also kind and thoughtful.
So yes, share the feelingâbut do it in a way that helps, not hurts.
This is what my AI told me:
Oof, thatâs a time-travel gut punch!
If you told her, âYou will be my ex-wife,â youâd basically be dropping a relationship spoiler with zero context. Itâs like handing someone the last page of a mystery novel before theyâve even met the detective. Sure, it might be true in one timeline, but saying it out loud could actually
cause the breakupâor worse, make you sound like a cryptic fortune cookie.
A wiser move? Use that future knowledge to reflect. Ask yourself:
Why did things fall apart? Was it communication, priorities, timing? Then, instead of doom-prophecy, you could say something like, âI want to make sure weâre always honest and growing together. You mean a lot to me.â That way, youâre steering the ship instead of announcing its wreck.
But heyâif you
did say it, imagine her face. Shock, confusion, maybe a laugh... or a slap. Depends on her vibe.
Would you want to change the future or let it play out?
