I think your decision is very personal and thus
you need to make the choice. For example you like ‘If you war peace prepare for war.’ whereas I
really don’t like it!
A garden is a place of peace, contemplation and relaxation so perhaps your choices should reflect that sentiment…be more reflective.
‘Think lightly of yourself and deeply of the world’ - Musashi
‘Honour may not win power, but it wins respect. And respect earns power.’ -
‘We don't rise to the level of our expectations, we fall to the level of our training.’
‘It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.’ -Confucius
‘Better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war.’
‘Even in a quarrel, leave room for reconciliation.’
‘Respect others, even your enemies.’
‘Say only what you mean, and mean what you say.’