Sheâll never need to do that. Thereâs never a scenario for her needing to defend herself and if she should ever, Iâm sure sheâd risk a sprained or even broken wrist to smack someone in the mouth.
I think we tend to exaggerate the risk from an unprovoked attack. Yes, a young
man who frequents places where others become intoxicated and are in âhigh spiritsâ or dark alleys in bad parts of town at night but sheâs a senior medical doctor with a car and mobile phone who goes to work, then home and to the dojo twice a week via that car (and sheâs covered by the AA). For example, in one UK survey year, only 0.3% of adults were victims of robbery, yet 9% of those surveyed were âvery worriedâ they would experience itâ30 times higher than the actual victimisation rate. Homicide rates in the UK remain relatively low by international standards, with around 9.7 homicides per
million people. London's homicide rate, for instance, is several times lower than that of many major U.S. cities and London is a veritable cesspool of criminals and general miscreants (which seems to include the Metropolitan police force)! In the UK, 8 out of 10 people in one survey experienced
no crime of
any sort in the previous 12 months.
Why do we have this exaggerated perception? Well weâre martial artist and we think in these terms all the time, and news outlets often focus heavily on violent and sexual crimes because they have higher news value, despite these crimes making up a small percentage of overall offences. This creates an
impression that such events are more common than they actually are. Overall crime in the UK has fallen, although certain urban areas or specific communities may experience concentrated issues, such as gang-related violence, which contributes to a feeling of tension and fear. There are feelings of safety that vary significantly across different demographic groups. People from ethnic minority backgrounds, those living in deprived areas, disabled people, and women are more likely to feel unsafe, regardless of the overall statistics.
Street violence may be less common than perceived, but other forms of crime like fraud and computer misuse have increased significantly and cause public worry; no amount of bag/pad work will help with that
Iâm aware that things are very different in, say, the USA.