Challenging the dojang instructor

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I am living in asia. I was surpised by the responds some gave me because in my country, challenging instructor is quite common. The answers which many of you people give me is not the culture of martial arts in my country. We have frequent competiton between karate and taekwondo judo etc and challenging instructor is common.

I guess we live in different cultures.


Interesting.

If it is not uncommon, then I guess the challenger getting his behind kicked is not uncommon either...
 

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I am living in asia. I was surpised by the responds some gave me because in my country, challenging instructor is quite common.

It would have been nice if we originally knew you were from another country. We thought that you were in the U.S. and that sort of mindset of inviting the instructor to fight is no longer acceptable here. Although there have been times I wish it still was.... Why were you surprised with our answers?
 

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I am living in asia. I was surpised by the responds some gave me because in my country, challenging instructor is quite common. The answers which many of you people give me is not the culture of martial arts in my country. We have frequent competiton between karate and taekwondo judo etc and challenging instructor is common.

I guess we live in different cultures.

That's the impression I was getting. I would assume then that you would just notify your instructor and let him deal with it. I am curious, would you think less of your instructor if he just turned him away at the door? I am truly curious, and in no way would judge on your response. In the US I think many would look down on the challenger, but I don't know that this is true to the martial art spirit depending on the type of challenge.

I would be interested to hear more about how your culture would respond to this situation, and I'm not sure anyone in this country can truly give you the best advice...anyone else on here live in a place where this is more normal, accepted?
 

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it used to be that way here in america, i am sure most of us have heard the stories about the 60's and 70's

lots of challenge matches, lots of people getting messed up.

of course, no one sued back then.

I understand, I have, at times wanted to go to the dojo where I knew the instructor was crap, and was basically ripping off his students, and call him on it, but I never have.
 
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Interesting.

If it is not uncommon, then I guess the challenger getting his behind kicked is not uncommon either...

Yes it happens and its funny. In my country, its the instructor duty to accept challenges and praticioner has to defend their art when challenged.
 
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That's the impression I was getting. I would assume then that you would just notify your instructor and let him deal with it. I am curious, would you think less of your instructor if he just turned him away at the door? I am truly curious, and in no way would judge on your response. In the US I think many would look down on the challenger, but I don't know that this is true to the martial art spirit depending on the type of challenge.

I would be interested to hear more about how your culture would respond to this situation, and I'm not sure anyone in this country can truly give you the best advice...anyone else on here live in a place where this is more normal, accepted?

Instructors have to accept challenges and people who pratice this art has to defend it, not by reasoning but by the fist. In brazil i know its common though.
 
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it used to be that way here in america, i am sure most of us have heard the stories about the 60's and 70's

lots of challenge matches, lots of people getting messed up.

of course, no one sued back then.

I understand, I have, at times wanted to go to the dojo where I knew the instructor was crap, and was basically ripping off his students, and call him on it, but I never have.

I guess US is different. I was reading some boxing stuffs and the 60s 70s american boxers does challenge each other by going to their gym. In my country, boxers get challenged by other gyms without notification, they just come into your gym and get into the ring.

In the US, it might be considered assault and arrogance. In my country, martial art instructors have to prove their worth and usually, the students will not follow a passive instructor.
 

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Here in the US, it is uncommon. But if I go to another school and challenge a school owner, so long as he or she accepts the challenge, willingly steps into the ring, and the match stays within the accepted rules of a match, I'm on good legal ground. It isn't assult; its one person saying 'I'd like to try my art against your art' essentially.

Now, if I go into the TKD school up the road, even unannounced and do the same thing, I may be a jerk, but I'm still okay as long as I don't just go in and start beating on the school owner.

Now, if I go in, introduce myself and then throw a crescent kick and take the guys face off without saying anything more, then I'm in deep doo-doo legally.

That is the distiction in the US.

I personally liked fencing master Adam Crown's approach: you sweat it out with the beginner students and show well with the advanced students in regular class time and prove your a competent fencer, then fix your attitude; fencing the master is a reward for good fencing and mature behavior and the master's skills are valued and not to be put on display for just anybody.

As for what you should do, informing your master and letting him deal with it if it happens is the best course of action. You've done your part by letting him know that a challenge is potentially coming. Not much you can do beyond that.

Daniel
 

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Just my thoughts, what should i do? He doesn't seem to be joking. I think he is over obsessed with his tough guy image and he needs to soften up abit.

Firstly, while he might not have been entirely joking, he may have
had no intention of actually doing it. . .he just likes entertaining
the notion.

As to what I think you should do:
Just let your instructor know (privately, of course). I'm sure he
has met the type before. . .everyone has. Giving your instructor
a bit of warning that it may happen will allow him to better decide
how to deal with it. Being put on the spot by a surprise challenge
does not lend itself to formulating a well reasoned response.

(Besides, you bringing up the issue might also give your instructor
the opportunity to explain to you and your fellow students how
he expects you to view "tough guys".)

And don't worry too much that your friend's attitude will reflect
badly on you in your instructor's eyes. Everyone at one time
or another has had a friend make an *** of themself. The fact
that you show concern now for his loutish attitude may look
better for you than trying to publicly dissociate yourself from
him afterwards, if he does make the challenge.

If there is a challenge, your TKD instructor will probably want
to know who your friend's karate instructor is, so they can
discuss what to do about him. I think it would be rare for
an instructor of just about any martial art (including the
various forms of karate and TKD) to be pleased that one of
their own students was behaving that way. The sentiments
underlying our Five Tenets are hardly unique to TKD.

Dan
 

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it used to be that way here in america, i am sure most of us have heard the stories about the 60's and 70's

lots of challenge matches, lots of people getting messed up.

of course, no one sued back then.

I understand, I have, at times wanted to go to the dojo where I knew the instructor was crap, and was basically ripping off his students, and call him on it, but I never have.


We had the infamous Dojo wars here in Chicago with counte Dante and the Green Dragon Society. The last battle of note was where the school that had the weapons won. People died. People were arrested etc.
 

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We had the infamous Dojo wars here in Chicago with counte Dante and the Green Dragon Society. The last battle of note was where the school that had the weapons won. People died. People were arrested etc.

I remember hearing about those wars, man how time hasflown by.
 

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Hi, my friend has been an aggressive man since he was in elementary school. Infact, he was the class bully. In highschool, he is still the bully, the guy who walk around with 5 big guys and going around acting tough. He recently joined the kyokushin karate club and he is really doing well. Hes around 6 feet 5 and he has been doing weight lifting since elementary school(father is a ex national weight lifter i heard).

I told him i am in the taekwondo club and those high kicks and jumping spinning kick is extremely good. Well, he told me he is going to come to the taekwondo club to beat up my instructor and he told me to tell my 5 feet instructor to get ready. He has never lost a full contact sparring session in the club since hes the biggest and toughest guy in school.

Two thoughts immediately crossed my mind:

1. Your "friend" has been watching way too many bad chop-socky movies.
2. You need to get a whole lot of gone between you and him.
 

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yeah, the dojo wars were the last WELL KNOWN battle.

thats cuz texans dont go to the press.

I know for a fact that challenge matches happened here until at least 1980 or so.

the rule was "if you open up a school within 20 miles of another, senior instructor, you better go and ask permission."

if you didnt, you could expect a group of blackbelts to show up, call you out and smash you up. Plus, they would break all your mirrors, etc, whatever you had, they would destroy.

Actually, I know of one case where this happened in 1886
 

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rofl. Kung fu fight at the Ok Corrall!

roundhouse kicks at 10 paces :D

Peace,
Erik
 

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We had an incident in our school when I was a gup student that was along the lines of what could be described as a "challenge match." Here's what happened & here's how my master dealt with it in the early 80's.

Two BB's in our school were sparring before class on a hot summer night. One was a decorated local guy who had won 2nd place in the 1981 world Pro TKD championships in Seoul. The other guy was a young Korean master who my master was grooming to either take over that school or teaching to run his own school.

As these 2 were sparring, (no pads, no cups, no mouthpieces) one unappologitic cheap shot after another from both men & soon it was an all out fight! (My master had not come to the dojang yet that night.) One guy wanted to take it "outside" & the other was willing to oblige him. The other BB's were pulling them apart as my master walked in.

My master told both guys to go home that night & that he'd speak to them later. The young Korean master was told never came back into our dojang. The "local hero" was told the same thing, yet every 6 months, he would come back & beg to let back to train with us. My master never let him come back.

Looking back at it more than 20 years, I still think this was the best course of action despite the cost to my master's business. (The local BB brought in students & the young master was a big help to my master).

Whether in house or from the outside, I don't "dojang wars" as being helpful to a school.
 

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I told him i am in the taekwondo club and those high kicks and jumping spinning kicks are extremely good. Well, he told me he is going to come to the taekwondo club to beat up my instructor and he told me to tell my 5 feet instructor to get ready. He has never lost a full contact sparring session in the club since hes the biggest and toughest guy in school.

I hate to be the bearer of bad new but although those high kicks and jump spinning hook kicks may look pretty they are pretty useless in a real fight. Your teacher may beat this bully but I hope he doesn't use those type kicks in a real fight otherwise he may just get beat up. This is just my thought though.
 

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I hate to be the bearer of bad new but although those high kicks and jump spinning hook kicks may look pretty they are pretty useless in a real fight. Your teacher may beat this bully but I hope he doesn't use those type kicks in a real fight otherwise he may just get beat up. This is just my thought though.
But it would be pretty hillarious if the teacher purposefully beat the guy using those kicks just to add extra embarrassment.

Daniel
 

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We had the infamous Dojo wars here in Chicago with counte Dante and the Green Dragon Society. The last battle of note was where the school that had the weapons won. People died. People were arrested etc.

Sorry for the OT comment, but you can read old Black Belt magazines which have several interviews with John K, aka Count Dante.
 

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