How do you get taught to not loose though?
I mean not loosing is kind of frowned upon in a lot of places. Because you are obviously not training hard enough.
I admit I don't know much if anything about your art. But how does it teach you to lose?
As is so often the case with your posts, at least imho, I simply cannot get any meaning or correlation between your last sentence, and my post or yours. So there is no way I would attempt to answer it.