shesulsa said:
My thoughts on this were geared more towards a large discrepancy in size, weight and power. A repeated, fast striking attack towards specific targets - in the case of a vast weight class discrepancy, vital point targets imho - is needed - however we mustn't lose the forest for the trees. In the type of scenario where the victim is MUCH smaller and MUCH lighter and MUCH weaker than the antagonist, striking AND releases must be drilled, sorry. Most girls I grab tend to pull me in and lean backwards, trying to pull their arm out. If they try to hit me, I grab the other arm, turn them around and bear hug them from the back with their arms crossed in front of them. IF they had used a quick-release technique as soon as my hand touched their arm, things would have turned out a lot differently, no? And a person who does not spend time punching COULD injure themselves more by punching a larger, more solid target than themselves and might not be able to use that free hand after all.
I completely agree, striking AND release must be trained. I've always believed that, however I dont teach to immediately go for the release. I also teach if you go for the release and it fails, you must
immediately move to something else. The possibility of grabbing their hand as they try and hit you is because of a lack of training in hitting as well as the old focus on one thing problem. One of the most effective (I've found) strikes against a wrist grab is as they grab your wrist and pull, you get ahead of it, collapse the arm (bending the elbow) and attack with the point of the elbow. That would take care of getting the other hand grabbed. Also, I teach to do many attacks simultaneously. That elbow could be thrown (piercing or even across) while a shin or knee kick is thrown while a nice grabbing of the groin is done with the other hand. All at the same time or strategically timed to offer the best result from their reaction. I guess what I'm saying is I agree, you must train something other than a simply release.
shesulsa said:
It's certainly a situation-by-situation basis, but when we're talking wrist grabs in real life attack situations, it's usually something that's done by someone who feels they have - and probably because they do have - FAR more strength and power than the person they are grabbing. I'm sure that's not true in every single case.
Well, my philosophy (and style) doesn't rely on strength or power. Thats why to me it doesn't make a difference how much more strength or power the grabber has. This is where "violent and specific" training comes into play. I dont mean to be harsh, but you think an attacker who grabs a woman by the wrist in front of any public place will succeed in abducting the woman if she immediately began screaming, kicking, elbowing, gouging, biting, grabbing "the boys", kneeing, even falling down on the ground? I just think the wrist grab is given way too much power and mostly because of the ignorance of the person being grabbed. My own view is that focusing so much on releases gives a false sense of security to releasing a grab. For one, as you have pointed out yourself, the grabber is most likely much bigger, stronger, and more aggressive. Thats going to be a hard grab to release....especially if the grabber has been reading threads like this one. Our small women as soon as being grabbed just go apeshit and begin a non-stop barrage of elbows, knees, stomps, eye gouges, etc. Its not impossible for a smaller person to take a larger persons center and throw them, so those are effective as well. In my experience and opinion, its much less about technique than it is attitude and willingness to survive. We had a student who ran down a knife attacker at a park not long ago. The guy grabbed a young girl from the arm or wrist, turned her around behind him. produced a knife and the girl went crazy, screaming, kicking, biting. The guy dropped her and took off. Unfortunately for him, one of our students happened to be running close by and pursued him for quite a while, allowing the cops a chance to catch him. Had the girl started for a grab release I think she might have had a different fate. In my opinion, the initial response might not be a release. Of course every situation is different.
shesulsa said:
I'm not so sure I agree with the first sentence, however I understand your intent behind it. I agree with the second sentence - please take note that I never said all one must do is release the grab; my point is that training wrist grab escapes correctly IS efficacious and important.
I completely agree, I didn't mean to say otherwise. I just wanted to point out that there needs to be much more to it than just a release. Also that a release may not happen, you need to know what to do then.
shesulsa said:
The point about pissing someone off is the raising of the stakes; some people when pissed off go into overdrive. The way I'm reading your statement there is that I mind pissing off an attacker. The opposite is true ... unless I am nowhere near getting away and he escalates his attack ... and now we're getting into another phase of discussion really.
I took your statement as saying the girl being grabbed should take care not to piss off her attacker. I may have misunderstood your point. Sorry.
shesulsa said:
Of course it is! Is that what we're discussing? Because I think that's a specificity that lies within the individual training, the art and the teacher, no? I thought we were discussing whether or not training escapes from wrist grabs is worthwhile.
Its a specificity, but there are universals. There are proven facts about abductions that make certain action necessary. For instance, you do not want to be transported to a different location if you can help it. In that case, you must do what is necessary to stop that action. Thats my intent behind the post.
Actually I think the original question was are wrist grabs effective as attacks. In my opinion it depends. In the mantis system we grab alot, I mean ALOT! However, I think wrist grabs as attacks are not effective as it ties up one of your weapons. We grab and release quickly, or grab and pluck, grab and choke, grab and chin na....see the pattern? Never just a grab. I think tying up your own weapons is not a good idea and one too many people take for grant it. I do however see the need for learning releases, because I dont think that I'll only encounter what I feel is effective, there are people out there who may attack me in ways I wouldn't attack them. That being said, we should attempt to train as many of those as possible.
shesulsa said:
Again, we go back to what I said earlier about releasing before the grab is on if that's possible. How about releasing while striking? Because that would describe some of the techniques I've seen and train on.
Definitely, in fact I make a comment (or meant to) a bit further back about releasing while attacking. In my opinion, that is the best way to release, at least in a real self defense situation. Or I take that back, the best way to release is before the grab is completed, but that could be argued its not really a release.
shesulsa said:
You probably wouldn't be attacked with this kind of grab, Adam, whereas a small girl with no forearms and who has no idea how to punch correctly without breaking her wrist is more likely to be attacked this way. Do you disagree?
I dont disagree and you make a good point, but if the girl is clueless about punching without breaking her own wrist, will she be able to pull off a release from a full (much more powerful) grab? Probably not. I dont think punching is the only way to attack either. I just think the point you made about the attacker being much more powerful and strong is debilitating to the effectiveness of the releases. If you can release before being grabbed thats one thing, but the fact is a girl who is clueless about punching is not going to be trained enough to react in that way. Especially from a surprise grab. My strategy differs from many, but the grabber will most likely have alot of power or focus on the grab, why attempt to fight against his force there? If he is really holding on tight and forcefully, dont even put your efforts there, we already agreed you couldn't beat him anyway. Go right to the opposite elbow to the neck, knee to the groin, then his focus is away from the grab and a release is much more effective. But thats my mantis bias, we always try to take the persons focus off our real attacks. Attack high to move their energy up and then attack the legs, etc.
shesulsa said:
Again, training on escaping is a step - a step in a response to this situation. And if you're going to train the most likely candidate to strike their opponent in the nose, please train them to strike with a heel palm - they're less likely to hurt themselves this way and they'll still have a hand to do more damage with.
Oh, I rarely teach self defense with punches. Its either palm or elbows normally. This is great as the distance is usually pretty close anyways. I may not have made myself clear though, punching in the nose is in my opinion not the most effective target for a small woman in a self defense situation. It all depends on what target is presented, but in that type of scenario, you want to most devastating target available.
shesulsa said:
I don't necessarily disagree with you here. What may be the only option would be to fight and fight and fight and fight until something happens - we hope they let go, and it has happened and will likely happen again and HURRAY!!
I think we agree much more than we think. I just wanted to point out that wrist grab releases are effective and should be trained, but that there is a huge gap in realism if you leave it at that.
shesulsa said:
R.I.P. Carlie Brucia - the girl who was abducted by Joseph Smith (who walked up to her, grabbed her forearm low, near her wrist) - who never learned how to avoid, respond, nor escape from her captor who lead her away
by the wrist;
her killer was sentenced to death.
Sad news. I dont think we can pick apart things like this and say "well if she would have done thins, it might have been different". But needless to say, some training is needed and anything is better than nothing in most cases.
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