To be honest it is tough for me to tak karate or Tae Kwon Do seriously. I have studied both but now I do Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. TKD and Karate have like a million belts (13 at the school I trained at) to get to black belt but you can test and get to the next level every 2 months or so. It just seems like a ploy to do lots of $50 belt tests so sucker kids and their parents out of money. You don't even need to spar and show you know how to use your skills in a realistic setting to move up. If you try BJJ for a month you will laugh at yourself for ever doing karate. I wish I didn't waste a year with TKD getting to a green belt.
That, Good Sir, is called McDojos.
You are free to favor a Martial Art, but downtalking others over a bad experience, thereby generalizing the entire Systems is foolhardy.
I tried Judo in the distant past, and never much cared for either of them. You dont hear Me telling People to go find decent TKD Dojangs and laugh at the time They wasted doing Judo.
Everything You just described is the opposite of how Karate and Taekwondo are; What You described is the same thing You will find at any Outlet for any Martial Art if it is being taught poorly. That is the OUTLET - Not the System. The Systems are sound. That doesnt mean the people running the Dojo/Dojang have the wisest intentions.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3oQ5ROZC4Yc&list=WLEAB784316E1B7788&index=24&feature=plpp_video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ryZ821S1gg4&list=WLEAB784316E1B7788&index=25&feature=plpp_video
Its kinda like how some BJJ Outlets only teach the Ground Fighting Aspects, as being intended to be used in conjunction with MMA, or otherwise Crosstraining; Whilst others will actually directly teach a Defense against Strikes.
And Your first thought may be memories of all those Defenses You more than likely have learnt against Strikes, and wondering how one could possibly hope to use strikes as a result - Consider that You are being taught to fight with a Mindset; A Mindset to Fight in that way. Strikers are being taught to fight with a different Mindset altogether, which works just as well, otherwise Striking would be essentially useless in Mixed Martial Arts Competitions, because itd universally end poorly. But it doesnt, because both methods work. And good Karate/Taekwondo will EMPHASISE Striking, albeit not teach it as being strictly the only thing They do. Much like how most good BJJ Outlets will Emphasise Grappling, but incorporate Striking. The same can be said of Pankration, Sambo, JJ, or whatnot*. Then theres the barrier of Rules. Have You learnt to Eye Gorge someone when They Front or Side Mount You?
All I suggest, is being open to the fact that what You saw is not the Standard. It is depressingly common though.
Welcome to the Forum, Good Sir
*EDIT: To list the best example of all, Aikido.