Robert Agar-Hutton
Yellow Belt
By Robert Agar-Hutton © 2019
How do you feel when you see on TV or in a movie, a few old people moving slowly, looking relaxed, smiling, doing Tai Chi.
Well I absolutely HATE it!
Why do I hate it? Itâs because they ALWAYS seem to make it look easy, and Tai Chi is not easy at all. The idea that itâs easy is a lie, that I and most other Tai Chi instructors accidentally perpetrate on people.
I get people of all ages joining my Tai Chi groups and either half way through their first lesson (and also during lessons weeks, months, or even years later) they get this Grim, Horrified, Scared, Desperate look on their face. The âlookâ comes as they try to do something that should be easy (because the instructor and most of the other students are doing it easily) but suddenly their brain has gone into âmelt-downâ, or their left and right hands and feet get inextricably mixed up and co-ordination becomes non-existent.
Why does this happen? Itâs because GOOD Tai Chi is and should be difficult. You should be continually asking your mind and your body to do something that is slightly more complicated or slightly more refined or subtle than what you have ever done before. And when that happens, when your instructor thinks you are ready to progress to the next level but your brain thinks âNo wayâ then thatâs what is going to cause the âlookâ.
So, how do you stop the problem... The answer is that you donât. In fact, you welcome it with open arms and a big (and perhaps slightly goofy) smile. Why, because it means that you are making progress - OK it wonât feel like that - but you are. And more importantly, one of the most important things that we can hope to get from our Tai Chi practice is a young (âYoungâ being a relative term; Young for our age.) body and mind. The mind is helped to stay young and active by making it learn new things, making it think âWHAT THE !!!!! is going onâ and then going on with your practice so that the difficult becomes easy. Indeed, I have even seen students turn the âimpossibleâ into âpossibleâ into âeasy peasyâ.
Now, as I always say to students, Tai Chi isnât magic and it wonât make you live forever and it wonât guarantee good health. But it does and can work seeming wonders for many people day after day.
How do you feel when you see on TV or in a movie, a few old people moving slowly, looking relaxed, smiling, doing Tai Chi.
Well I absolutely HATE it!
Why do I hate it? Itâs because they ALWAYS seem to make it look easy, and Tai Chi is not easy at all. The idea that itâs easy is a lie, that I and most other Tai Chi instructors accidentally perpetrate on people.
I get people of all ages joining my Tai Chi groups and either half way through their first lesson (and also during lessons weeks, months, or even years later) they get this Grim, Horrified, Scared, Desperate look on their face. The âlookâ comes as they try to do something that should be easy (because the instructor and most of the other students are doing it easily) but suddenly their brain has gone into âmelt-downâ, or their left and right hands and feet get inextricably mixed up and co-ordination becomes non-existent.
Why does this happen? Itâs because GOOD Tai Chi is and should be difficult. You should be continually asking your mind and your body to do something that is slightly more complicated or slightly more refined or subtle than what you have ever done before. And when that happens, when your instructor thinks you are ready to progress to the next level but your brain thinks âNo wayâ then thatâs what is going to cause the âlookâ.
So, how do you stop the problem... The answer is that you donât. In fact, you welcome it with open arms and a big (and perhaps slightly goofy) smile. Why, because it means that you are making progress - OK it wonât feel like that - but you are. And more importantly, one of the most important things that we can hope to get from our Tai Chi practice is a young (âYoungâ being a relative term; Young for our age.) body and mind. The mind is helped to stay young and active by making it learn new things, making it think âWHAT THE !!!!! is going onâ and then going on with your practice so that the difficult becomes easy. Indeed, I have even seen students turn the âimpossibleâ into âpossibleâ into âeasy peasyâ.
Now, as I always say to students, Tai Chi isnât magic and it wonât make you live forever and it wonât guarantee good health. But it does and can work seeming wonders for many people day after day.