Juany118
Senior Master
Let's say person came up to me and started giving me verbal. He's standing too close and has one hand in his coat pocket, the other free. I ask him to take his hand out of his pocket but he doesn't. He becomes more aggressive with the verbal and is right in my face. I believe he has a weapon in that pocket, and I believe he intends to use it. Can I punch him?
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Pushing him to regain your personal space definitely. The problem with ordering him to remove his had from his pocket is that you lack that legal authority so he has no duty to comply.
I'll give a LEO example. I am on foot patrol. I walk up to someone and start talking to them, no reasonable suspicion to detain, no reason to arrest, simply what the law calls a "mere encounter." I can ask him to take his hand out of his pocket, but if I order it I have now turned a mere encounter into a detention. If I don't have reasonable suspicion it is an unlawful detention, if I go hands on to get his hands out of his pocket I have a nice Act 1983 law suit on my hands. This includes if he is saying "ffffing pig, ffff off, I got nothing to say to you ffff punk...."
So you need to define "aggressive." Is he just insulting you? Your momma, whatever in a loud and aggressive way? Then, technically, you can push him to regain you If he threatens physical violence I would actually advise simply pushing (unless there are witnesses). I say this for a few reasons.
1. No witnesses means it's a "he said, he said" argument. The person lacking injuries loses.
2. Any preemptive action is dicey, unless you can articulate objective facts that would make a reasonable person in like circumstances fear for their safety. Most people I know, without the requisite legal training, can't do this properly
So I usually say, don't let pride get in the way, if someone gets in your face and starts trash talking, suck it up and walk away.