No, cauliflower ear is "Ugly"!
Looks like a wad of hubba bubba stuck to his head.
I think that it looks more like a potsticker, but I just don't think it's any big deal. As I said, you think it's ugly, but to many within MMA or grappling, it's just the indelible mark that the sport leaves, like enlarged knuckles on a karateka or disfigured feet on a ballerina. I just can't bring myself to get worked up about it. Having, at 39, 16% body fat, a strong core and more fun than I've had since I was a kid in exchange for gnarly ears... I consider that an easy decision. Really, no decision at all.
Personally, I don't think it's a badge of honor or any sign of dedication to the art. Some guys are naturally prone to cauliflower... 3 months after training, they look like they've got giant pieces of garlic in their ear. some guys train to black belt before they have any issues. It's just a silly little thing. As I said, vanity.
Now, this isn't to say that there's any stigma against headgear. While there are certainly guys who dig the cauliflower, lots of guys wear headgaear and it's no big deal. They aren't considered wimps or anything. It's up to them. I won't wear headgear because I tried it and hated it.
On a tangent, I've often argued that women are way more superficial than men when it comes to dating, attraction and relationships. Men are more overt, but when it comes down to it, women on the whole are far more style over substance and this is just another example of that.