Ken is very accurate, noonesfool. I teach and practice eyes, trachea, carotid, temple, ear cavity, etc. for hands. Inside of the thigh, groin, knees, kidneys, etc. with hard shoe tip and sole. I am a TKD Instructor. Do we do WTF sport sparring? You bet. It is a humane way, besides the above light/no contact drills, to sharpen your timing and coordination. To underscore Ken's point, how easy is it to choose a gradient of force between light respectful contact and knockout/life threatening power? It is usually only one or the other. It is very hard otherwise, with a moving target. The Grandmaster or Master level is where I too would expect to see this ability concerning strikes. Joint control is a little easier to have useable gradients for the street, but you better know your stuff. It is best to use a strike before the lock or throw is attempted also. I have two such encounters come to mind where someone tried to restrain me with a less than debilitating hold or throw. I exploded free and knocked them both out HARD. If they used more pressure/conviction, the outcome would have been questionable. Better judged by twelve than carried by six. Be nice to your training partners, slam the urine out of someone who wants your health. If your Kung Fu Instructor does a 180 on what we are saying, I would do verification on this Forum with a poll. It doesn't mean he (your Instructor) would be dishonest, but not all Instuctors have had life/health threatening baptisms of fire to use as a reference. The less reference, the harder to see beyond assumption. You sound like a very good person with the best of intentions from your posts and I really admire that. There are some very skillful, knowledgeable, honest people who frequent this Forum. Good luck w/your new Instructor and school!
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