*Sigh*
Boy Scout motto Nick, the Boy Scout motto.
You can train several lifetimes in whatever art you choose and be the best there ever has been. But nothing is going to stop you from getting your butt whupped by some cranked out punk-assed loser if you're not prepared.
Several dozen threads have dealt with this particular topic already in one form or another.
You can work out 4 or 5 days a week (gotta give your body a rest so knock off the everyday stuff) and train hard for four or five hours a day (gotta give your body a rest I tell ya!) and gradually your body is the epitome of the Martial Artist.
But it ain't gonna be able to do squat if the mind isn't prepared along with it. Memorizing stances, kicks, forms, techniques, throws, joint locks, evasion, pin-downs, punches is all well and good and just as vital as honing your body to preform all of those. But it's been repeated here on MT that you have to train your mind to be watchful of your environment as well. Observe all who can be observed, look ahead of the path you're walking and see the numerous places an attacker/mugger/dipwad can hide and spring out on you in an ambush, see possible escape routes along the way... and so forth.
It's not paranoid it's being smart... street smart and there are ways to do it without looking like you're looking over your shoulder every five seconds. :uhoh:
When the attack happens you're already there and already ahead of them. You know where all the broken glass is and other stuff that you can trip on, you know how far it is behind you to the curb so when a guy is trying to back you into a corner you don't trip over it, your mind is prepared for that hand on the shoulder and that "hey buddy!" low and dangerous from behind.
"...last night the wife said; o' boy when you're dead, you gonna take nothing with ya but your soul.... THINK!"
No truer words ever sang than those by John Lennon.
Brain training, something taught to me by my friends in the Search And Rescue units. Brain train yourself to prepare for whatever comes. Don't go crazy with your imagination, be realistic, rely on past experiences ask yourself... what can I do better, what if?
Another prepration and no less important. Your spirit. Call it warrior spirit or whatever you want. If you got a faith/religion that bolsters your spirit, then work on that as well, because that should be trained and worked and honed to a fine edge as much as your mind and body.
Work a little on each, then work on tying them together in harmony. To where the mind, spirit and body are as one... you. :yinyang:
Read my sigs... both of them. See how they relate to your experience and training and the years to come.
Learn to read your surroundings and see the attack coming before it commences and thus you'll be better prepared and less surprised should it ever happen. Alert and sniffin at shadows ... that's you on the inside... but outside ... cool :supcool:, confident :ultracool , and at peace :uhyeah:
It takes time but it'll happen. Be confident in your training and expect the unexpected. You'll be just fine.
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