Most of the time I log on I see the new threads and alot of it is in the Study or its subcatagory. I see debates, heated exchanges and personal shots. It makes me so sick sometimes I don't even want to be on this site.
Does the study help you in your martial arts or life?
Does it hinder your training or cause conflict in your life?
For me, personally, dicussing martial arts on line can be fun and interesting, but not always fruitful-even with video, it's easy to misunderstand and be misunderstood. At any rate, my posting has remained divided abou 50-50 between the Study, and everything else....
as for the Study, it does help me in martial arts and life, and it doesn't hinder my training-
or cause me any conflicts. This last is important:
it's only the Internet. Doesn't put food on my table, don't really have to live with any of the people I disagreee with, maybe even never have to see them. If it bothers me-or my behavior bothers me-I can just turn it off, and stay away.
On the other hand, it's a good thing to discuss current events and to see other's viewpoints on pertinent issues, and try to reach some understanding of their viewpoint. Fact is, I do have to deal with people that I don't agree with, or people who's viewpoints are more than a little disturbing or just vastly different from mine: I did a search at an airport about 6 years ago, and it was notable because the two airport police who accompanied me insisted on prostletyzing the entire time-pointing out how important it was that I be a Chrisitian and be "saved" because of the good work I was doing. I could tune them out, and even tell them to shut up (because they were interfering with how I was doing my job, not because of what they were saying) but I can't very well go about "turning" off or setting everyone I disagree with that I encounter in person to "Ignore." :lol:
Lastly, the Study is a good place to practice perfecting my character-at least I've come to view it that way. I have the fortunate, or unfortunate position of always thinking I'm right-
because I usually am :lol:. Consequently, I don't tolerate dissent very well, or seek concensus-I usually determine what the best path forward is, and put everyone to work implementing it. THis works real well in my work life, especially in emergency situations, but not so well in personal interactions, or in discussions like those that take place in the Study-although, there are some viewpoints here that I just won't ever see eye to eye on, I might not otherwise get to interact with people that hold those viewpoints, and we all at least have one thing in common: a love for martial arts.
Hitotsu! Jinkaku kansei ni tsutomuru koto:We will strive to perfect our character-Shotokan dojo kun....