It's happened before, and my ears are still ringing from it.
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What could WE do? No, what could THEY do?
What could they do? Hate to sound like Mr. Clinton, but ... define 'could.' Could in theory? Could logically? Could spiritually? Could reasonably? Could within the confines of their hormonally-charged, fairly irrational teenage brain?
It's a matter of economics... what are ya feeling most, boy? Embarrassed or horny?
My money's on a near-fatal and equitable combination of both.
Freely - to them. Paid for by others. Including those who want no part of it and were not asked.
Wah. Boo hoo. Own a home? Don't have kids? Withdraw your payment of property taxes because they help pay for the libraries, parks, schools and other free educational programs other people's kids use. *Notes calendar for youngest child's 18th birthday.*
Now why would we want to protect those kids?
Because it makes sense, because our social assistance programs are strained enough, because the medical field is strained enough, because there are far too many sick unwanted babies, BECAUSE ONE IN FOUR TEENAGE GIRLS GET AN STD. Could be yours.
But... you've argued above that the cost of permanent disfigurement, terminal illnesses, sterilization, and social ostracism, along with the other things you've mentioned, are not worth the cost of the embarrassment of purchasing the means of prevention, even to those who will bear the cost. And because they refuse to bear that cost, you want others to bear it for them.
Huh?? I did not argue that. Perhaps you misread my sarcasm? My point was that the teenage brain will NOT be processing the long-term risks while doused with hormones and lacking the oxygenated blood supply.
I guess if you're worried about cost you need to look beyond the pocketbook, though I still think it's a great place to start:
ATLANTA - An American diagnosed with the AIDS virus can expect to live for about 24 years on average, and the cost of health care over those two-plus decades is more than $600,000, new research indicates.Both life expectancy and the cost of care have risen from earlier estimates, mainly because of expensive and effective drug therapies, said Bruce Schackman, the study’s lead author.
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Let's assume that study is close to correct and use the numbers for the sake of argument.
A box of 20 Lifestyles condoms not on sale at our local store costs about $12.
Let's assume you use all 20 condoms in one week. That's $12 per week, $624 per year and $14976 for 24 years. That's in Oregon though, so no sales tax. Add an 8% sales tax to those numbers and it goes up to $12.96 per week, $673.92 per year and $16174.08 over 24 years.
$600,000 ... $16,200.
I haven't found the study abstract yet, but I'm fairly certain that $600k number is inclusive of medical care and medication only - I doubt that this number includes paperwork processing costs, government worker pensions, occasional hospitalizations, lack of employment nor comfort items required such as diapers, chucks pads, special balms for the skin, etcetera.
But to be fair, the $16k number doesn't cover gasoline, pedal power, alternative fuel costs nor the cost of the vehicle it took to get there - let's give the subject a cash-purchased Ford Explorer with a full tank and put the Walmart at 5 miles away. That'll bump his/her cost to a whole $56270. And if the subject purchases the Female Condom, the cost goes up quite a bit more - might even bring it up to $80k but let's give it extra cushion and bring it up to an even $100k.
$600k. $100k.
Numbers *could* measure the cost of infertility counseling and treatment, in vitro fertilization, adoption costs.
But numbers can't measure heartbreak, stress and strain, depression and anxiety secondary to this.
I don't think teaching abstinence only is the sole answer, I don't think teaching sex as a health topic and providing barrier contraception is the only answer.
I think we need to do BOTH.
There is JUST NO QUESTION that sex is a health issue and should be taught as such.
There is also NO QUESTION that it is a health issue which involves behaviors which means it has moral and spiritual implications and social repercussions.
Hence, it is INCUMBENT upon us to treat it - AND TEACH IT - as BOTH.