What kind of moves do you show friends, family or acquaintances when they say "show me"?
Thanks!
NONE!!!
You have to be careful who you let know you study martial arts. I really see no problems with family but, friends and acquaintances can be a problem. I don't like people knowing but friends and family usually tell others...
I've had a few times where people approach saying
"What would you do, if I do this?" That is the problem!
It starts there and heads south very quickly... People don't understand the faster they move the faster you have to respond. They don't understand the force you have to respond with either. You have some who get the message with a simple block but, others who get increasingly harder with their strikes each time.
My sifu is big on using every moment to train. That means even little movements that look like nothing but are actual training or conditioning drills. I'm always doing something all though most people have no clue. Well, one morning at work before the customers come in I was walking with a pole (I use to work at Home Depot) and I started doing basic staff movements. A guy on our overnight stock team saw me doing this and knew what it was I was doing.
He instantly responded you do martial arts!
Being caught red handed I said I try a little... He responded he did kenpo what style do I train? I said kung fu he went into this how he doesn't respect kung fu yada yada yada...
I was like that's cool.. of course every time he saw me after he had to test me with
"What would you do, if I do this?" Oh boy...
This guy would actually see me walking through the building and run to catch me coming down an isle or walking through an area and jump out at me with no warning... You can see where this is headed right?
The problem was he'd jump out with these almost full speed and power attacks...I know he was not at full speed or power but, they were without warning. I had to literary put him on his a$$ before he got the point!
I had the same thing happen with two other co-workers that were wrestlers...
So If I can help It I don't tell or show anyone anything! If by chance I do show someone something I explain "the harder and faster they hit the harder and faster I have to hit back to respond to the attack." They usually get the message then.