When I was 7 years old, I started training in CMA at a school where my uncle instructed. I started because I loved watching the kung fu movies that were always on Friday nights. However, when I started training, stretching, callistenics, doing forms as slow as I could possibly do them, then being asked to go even slower and slower, I thought to myself "this isn't what I watch on tv!". So, I was going to quit and join a hard style school so I could look like the guys on tv. However, I was talked out of it when my uncle told me "there are different potential curves for all styles. In hard styles, your skills improve quickly, plateau after a while, and diminish with age. In soft styles, your skills improve slowly for the rest of your life." Although I didn't know what he was talking about at the time, his talk got me to stick around for 3 years, after which I got involved in sports and other little boy stuff. Now, 23 years, later, I finally understand what he was talking about. My son, 4 years old, and I are enrolled in a chinese kempo karate school that combines hard and soft techniques and forms, a good compromise, I think, for a 4 year old with lots of energy. However, I am looking around for a taiji chuan school for myself, and hopefully my son when he is ready, because I do want to improve my skills for the rest of my life.