I would have to vote for this one too. Nothing beats using your brain to discern the least amount of force appropriate to the situation at hand.
I'm new here -- but philosophically I wouldn't think martial artists are supposed to be "cowboys". Use your head and try to get away from the situation. If that doesn't work, use your body the way you've been taught.
What kinds of weapons would you be carrying on your person??
Just my .02
That's exactly what I was complaining about. It sounds like you're telling the person who asks the question that he or she doesn't have sense enough to avoid an unnecessary fight. It sounds condescending and extremely rude even though you don't mean it that way.
Most people know how to not get into fights. Martial arts are about what to do when you're in a situation that requires force or the threat of force. Once you're there superior platitudes about how nothing bad happens to True Martial Artists(tm) aren't going to do anything but tick off someone who came for advice about things he or she
didn't already know.
If I'd started off self defense classes by saying "If someone tries to rape you it's your fault. You should have seen it coming and talked your way out of it. So I'm not going to teach you how to fight. You just need to wise up." I would have found out just how good my skills were. Ten or twenty righteously pissed off women would have tried to stomp a mudhole in me. And I would have deserved it.
Leaving aside self congratulation about what cool people we all are, martial artists are not experts in de-escalation, reading body language, hostage negotiations, conflict resolution or any of those other skills. We might pick some of that up, but it's usually incidental. Someone who asks a bunch of martial artists "What are the pros and cons of different weapons I might carry" is asking exactly that. It's simple good manners to say "I don't know," or "I'm not comfortable talking about that," if you can't give a straight answer.
Cliff Stewart can train you to be a bodyguard. It's what he does for a living. You'll learn a certain amount of specialized violence-prevention from the course. He's a great advocate of martial arts, knives and guns when they are called for.
Verbal Judo is a very specialized class popular with police departments. It teaches the specific techniques of verbally handling hostile people. The graduates do not throw away their pain gas, pistols, clubs, shotguns, handcuffs and Tasers.
That said, I live in a State with very reasonable concealed carry laws for handguns and a expansive view of what is permissible to carry openly. Automatic knives, saps, knives and a whole bunch of other things are technically legal if they're visible. Of course, if you travel a few miles North into Washington State you're committing several felonies. And you stand in serious danger of failing the all-important P.A.T. (Police Attitude Test) if you walk around with a two-handed mace, a pushbutton knife and a blackjack and cop an attitude.
That said, these are a few of my favorite things if I am outside the house under normal circumstances and am concerned about the possibility of a violent criminal attack...
- Knife: Like almost everyone I spend time with I carry a folding knife with a pocket clip, usually a Spyderco Endura with the Wave feature. It's useful for a hundred things besides stabbing people. Every police officer and emergency worker carries one or something like it.
- Steel-capped shoes: They are legal and give a kick some real authority. They are very difficult to disarm.
- Walking stick: Legal everywhere. Effective if you know how to use it. The downside is that you look like easier prey and attract more predators.
- Saps, blackjacks, sap gloves and palm saps: Only where legal. They can be anything from gentle remonstrance to thermonuclear war depending on how you use them.
- Distractions: Not fight stoppers but useful for giving you an extra second or two.
- Weighted scarf: There is a whole specialized set of techniques for this under-rated tool.
- Improvised weapons: A whole other discussion. The key here is "improvised". They aren't as good as purpose-built tools, but they beat screaming for help.
Home is another matter. We have a lot of things lying around from Moro Kerises to Congolese spears. That's not including the two dogs and the shotgun.