Originally posted by Kirk
I'd be surprised if
no one has witnessed someone work hard, earn their b.b. and
then LEAVE. Never to be heard from again?
This actually happens a lot - every martial arts instructor I've ever talked to from any style admits that.
we do what we can to limit that, though. In my opinion, leaving after black belt takes place primarily due to either a lack of communication along the way, or a lack of understanding. many new black belts don't realize, for one reason or another, that their training changes. There are less and less new techniques to be learned, and they dwell on this rather than delving deeper into what they already know in order to nake new discoveries.
That is one of the biggest complaints I have heard from fairly new black belts- "I don't feel like I'm learning anything new."
I want to slap them in the head and tell them they're not paying attention, but instead I just try to explain how the journey changes and how we need to look into refining what we do know,
take the new techniques we learn and treasure them, and to look into making new discoveries.
Another common problem is that new black belts can't shift the focus away from themselves. As we reach higher levels, our focus is less and less solely on what the art can do for me, and more and more towards a blance between that and what i can do for the art, and for others practicing the art. many people just dont want this responsibility, or dont feel comfortale in that role, and it leads them away.
To me one of the biggest rewards is knowing that the more i put into the art, the more i get back from it. Too many students want to remain passive and have everything handedto them, even at black belt level. I want to say that in my experiences, far more black belts remain and train then quit, but itdoes still happen. These are people that seem to have "goten it", but as the true reality of what being a black belt is an how much training really does change at that point dawns on them, thet don't feel comfortable and leave.
All too often these people become martial arts drifters, floating from one style to another looking to be given some kind of enlightenment. They make black belts in many styles, and become very proficient fighters and technicians, and accrue a lot of knowledge, but inavriably never progress past first degree black belt. eventually many of these artists feel they have enough knowledge and found their own schools or systems.
Some actually find the enlightenment and sucess they were looking for in this as they are now doing something for others, but many are not successful or happy in this either, and some drop ioff the martial arts scene all together.
I hate to be perpetuating a stereotype, but I've seen it happen, both within my style, and through friends in other styles.
maybe it does happen because no one ever gave them other goals, but I feel it happens most often because they just didn't understand or accept the way training changes after black belt.
this should be explained to all students gradually as they advance in rank, but being told and experiencing it are two different things.