This is a good question, and it needs to be broken down a bit.
Average guy - is this person the average couch potato that eats too much fast food and plays too many video games? Or is this person someone who has been in and out of prison for the last 15 years? Is he a 'trusty of modern chemistry' i.e. drug addict? The 'term' average could mean different things to different people.
Agreed, the term could mean a variety of things. I mentioned that in my other post as well.
McDojo/McDojang - many already know my stance on this, but I don't mind expounding. Most places these days concentrate on sport training rather than self-defense training. This is because sport is easier and more commercially sellable. And too be very direct and honest about it, most only know the sport side. They teach from theory rather than experience (either on their own part or on the part of who trained them). That isn't to disrespect or devalue those training on the sport side, but there is a difference.
Agreed again. As I too have said before, in many cases, the schools tend to cater to what the public wants, which unfortunately, isnt always a good thing, or what the owner of the school wants, but to avoid shutting down due to lack of students, if he relies on the students for $$, then yes, he has to change or risk not having a huge student base.
We react the way we train.
Agreed 100%.
This is important! And again, no disrespect to the other side of the house. The statement that 'a little training is better than no training' isn't exactly correct. If the initial training is bad, it could actually be a detriment in a real world altercation. On the other hand, a little good training can carry the day. As I've mentioned many times, WWII combatives as taught by Fairbairn and/or O'Neill was a VERY short course but has been demonstrated to be extremelty useable in real world altercations and retained in long term memory. In some cases even decades after initial training. Training such as this has a focus on gross motor skills and simple, but effective techniques.
Addressed this in my 2nd post. The combatives that you mention follow the KISS concept....keep it short and sweet as well as effective. This is what I was talking about when I mentioned the bare bones material. That said, I agree with this as well.
The question becomes; how many modern 'Mcdojo/McDojangs' use this training methodology? Serious question.
If a martial artist has trained in a specific, limited environment that focuses on refined motor skills against semi-resisting opponents under certain conditions...how will he/she fare against a 'street fighter' who just doesn't give a care and doesn't obey the same rules? How many times have you seen the opponent throw a half-hearted punch a foot to the side of his partners head and then sorta leave it there for his partner to grab and do something fancy? How well do the flashy kicks work? Now let's put them in jeans or a dress with high heels on snow, grass, sloping surface etc and see how they work. Let's put the lights out and see how we do. Let's try our technique in an elevator or on the stairs or between two parked cars and see what happens. This is what I'm talking about.
Bottom line...I just don't like the 'McMartial Artists' chances.
Very good points! I agree with this as well. Let me address some points. How many Mcdojos teach the WWII type of material you mentioned or that mindset? Probably not many if any at all. They're not interested in that, instead they're more interested in how many 5yo BBs are running around, how many BBs they have total, and just cashing the check each month. Do they have any concern for the growth of the students? Maybe, but I doubt they have much.
Someone who trains with a semi resistant person is IMO, going to stand a better chance than someone who trains against no resistance. This is why its also up to the student, to seek out that type of training. Many times, I'd do training with my teachers and other workout partners, that we'd never dream of doing in the class room. Why? Because its not for everyone. So yes, many times, we'd gear up with the bare essentials, and just go.

Hard body shots, elbows, knees, clinch work, ground work, etc. Yes, I know, the next thing someone will say is that you can't replicate a real fight. OTOH, you can get very close to it though. People talk about sparring and how thats supposed to be as close to a real fight, yet safety is in mind. Well, yeah, I'd agree with that, IF the sparring wasnt the light touch, tippy/tappy point stuff. If you're not adding in contact, hard contact, then no, the light touch stuff probably wont prep the student well enough.
Empty hand SD....nothing pisses me off more, when I'm working a tech, and they go to choke me and they have their hands on my shoulders, not my neck. Put your damn hands on my neck and squeeze!!!! If you're gonna punch me, aim for my face. If I screw up and get hit, thats my fault, but stopping 5in away from me isnt helping me, its hurting me.
IMHO, the martial arts involve contact. If you're training for Sd, then you better be used to that contact and if you're not, then perhaps the martial arts are not for you, if SD is your goal. (I'm saying "you" as a general reference, I'm not talking about you KSD

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