So you 'toughen them up'. Okay, but do you actually know what good self-defense training is? I don't say this sarcastically, but to be blunt, if you're basing this off MMA then you don't know what good self-defense training entails.
Do you;
- Train outside on various surfaces?
- Train outside in dim light conditions?
- Train inside of a vehicle?
- Train between vehicles in the parking lot?
- Train inside of an elevator?
- Train on stairs?
- Train in a cramp hallway where mobility is limited?
- Train to escape/evade/de-escalate?
- Train with the appropriate response to the situation?
- Train with multiple attackers?
- Train with weapons, both conventional and improvised?
- Train with a flinch response methodology?
- Train with the applicable local, state and federal laws governing use-of-force/use-of-deadly-force?
- Train for home deterrence/defense?
- Train for travel defense?
Anyone in traditional or MMA can claim they teach self defense. Few actually know what they're doing. Based on your video and your posts, without sounding mean about it, you don't know what you're doing. Unless you're doing ALL the above plus you're doing your students a grave disservice.