Very well said, Sir.
That passion you mention seems to be getting more and more watered down or outright lost, Sans Vodka.
Maybe it is a generational thing. Folks seem to express themselves differently these days. Somehow it is supposed to express emotion when you enter certain keystrokes on your keyboard. Never have really got that one. .Sure it expresses your intention but your emotion?
Admittedly, it have not felt it in a while and I am not sure I can describe it but there is nothing like the feeling leading up to a tough match. Some people use the analogy of a powder keg but that never worked for me. I never 'blew up' in a split second. Instead the pressure (emotion) would build and build until it had to be released. Over time I learned how to control the release. There were several days when you had as many as three 3-minute round matches in the same day. And then had to show up the next day and do it again. Blow off all that emotion & energy in the first match and you were going home early. Great times.
For me at least, this is one of the elements of competition that Does transfer to life.
I would say there are ineffective, overly safe, non-mental stressing tournaments that have little to no value.
One the other side of the spectrum are matches like I mentioned above.
In the middle is the majority of tournaments where there is varying degrees of pressure testing, both mental and physical. If they are done with enough frequency they have good, applicable, real world value. If they are only done a few time where a person never really 'gets it' they have no value at all.
I think they can be put in the tool bag category if done to proficiency. And the variety in going to tournaments of various styles is a very great asset and just fun as hxll.
The passion, may it never go away....and maybe I'm just an easy mark....
On Saturday Night the UFC was on TV (please bear with me) there were prelims on, which I didn't watch and I'd never pay for pay per view.
There were two title fights. In one, Kamaru Usman (the Champ) defeated Jorge Masdival (former Champ) with a laser right hand to the chin for a KO. Oh my, it was such a beautiful punch. And hours after the fight, Masdival had the classiest things to say, which to me, just makes watching these things so much more enjoyable.
In the other title fight, Rose Namajunas (former Champ) KO's Weili Zhang (Champ on a 21 fight win streak) with a text book front leg roundhouse kick to the jaw. It was beautiful. Zhang is the best woman MMA fighter I've ever see. My wife and I have been following Rose Namajunas since she started. (again, please bear with me)
A friend of mine sent us the KO's on a text. As well as to a few of our friends and students. We then spent a few hours on texts and phone calls discussing the techniques. The passion we all had discussing it was the same as the passion we had as young students of the arts. Heck, I had a forty minute phone discussion on the front leg round kick alone with a fellow fighter and that was just so much fun.
Second - I visited work last Wednesday. Been out since the pandemic started. My Lt. (a good friend) wanted to introduce me to a young man who works security, that's been waiting to meet me. This kid, Paul, who's about 27, was born and raised in Tahiti. He's been boxing and competing since he was five, training and competing in Muay Thai since he was seven. He's one of the nicest young men I've met in a long while. He wants to be an MMA fighter, but doesn't know how to grapple. I'm going to teach him until he gets the basics down and then hook him up with some other people.
He's in superb shape, about two twenty, and built like a beast. My Lt sent me a vid of him shadowboxing back in Tahiti and he's quick as all hell, has nice footwork, just looks good. I wish I knew how to post it, I'd love for you guys to see it.
My point is - I'm really looking forward to training him when this pandemic is under control, both him and I are passionate about both the training and him competing. So passion still lives!
And what you said about competing, I agree completely. And "control the release" is as good a way to put it as any.