I see it also, I HAD a student who came to class feeling defeated as soon as she came throught he door.
The class would work on various scenarios and she's feeling great, then the next class walking in with her head down again. At this point I know it's the hubby at home, so I say to the class (all women) is it possible for your husbands or boy friends to make to class so they can see what your training is and how to help you train at home.
I got some good feedback from most except her, in front of everyone she says my husband said this stuff is a waste of time and if I ever get attacked I'm dead anyway (he always says this as she leaves the house for class)
This didn't shock me I figured this might be the case, but I was hoping he would at least show up to find out. I saw him in the parking lot one day and I let him know he was invited, he began to say how great an idea that was and how good this was for his wife and all the other women in class.
We shook hands said see ya later and I went back into class, that was her last day at my school.
Was I surprised no, did it bother me, a little. The real problem is no matter her training , if you believe the moment your attcked that your going to die , then I belive you will.
Back to that self promoted Black Belt, he won't last long and hopefuly he dosen't do much harm before he's exposed, That's about all you can hope for.
Unless he starts a Women's self-defense class and they kick the crap out of him, I'd be ok with that.