wushuguy
Purple Belt
... One reason many people, especially many women, look to things like pepper spray for self defense is that they want a quick fix that doesn't involve really addressing the issue of physical confrontation. I know people who carry spray precisely because they cannot come to terms with having to do real damage and "really hurt" another person. ...
Pepper spray is not "bug spray, for bad guys".
Female self-defense students and many others who are "peaceful and would never hurt an ant" think pepper pray is exactly that magic. Using pepper spray is obviously not as simple as people who never used it think. It can be a crutch to self-defense, but I found that educating people will slowly relieve them of that "ultimate pepper spray defense" idea.
Those that study with me and are interested in pepper spray, I show them a few kinds of pepper spray choices, such as the Kimber LifeAct, and pepper spray/kubaton, that they can see that pepper spray is more than "bug spray", and thoughts of how to use it are different, and methods of delivery have advantage and disadvantages. After some lessons, most feel that they no longer feel they need to carry that in many cases, as there are other tools to use which are more readily available and less likely to produce adverse effects. Using pepper spray for demo outdoors is one thing, but if had to use it in a confined area, a room, subway, bus, or if there are others around that don't need to be sprayed, those need to be considered ...
Most self-defense situations, usually there's no time to bring out the spray from it's hidden place in the purse, pocket, backpack... and if there is time to dig it out, shouldn't one be running already?