When I first joined this forum years ago I had a certain viewpoint on belts and rank, but now, after having been to multiple dojos and after having made it to black belt at more than one dojo, my viewpoint on belts and rank has changed. At one time I had the mindset that somebody who didnât want to earn belts or rank lacked ambition and didnât want to amount to anything in the martial arts but now I realize that just because somebody has no desire to want to earn belts or rank doesnât mean they lack ambition, they just might have different goals because people who do take up the martial arts do so for all different reasons and as such they have different goals in mind and not all those goals are about attaining belts and rank.
So for students of the martial arts who donât have any desire to gain belts or rank, thatâs their choice and I respect that. The problem is when people push their choices on other people, when they say other people should make the same choice as them. I wonât mention any names but some of the people on this forum have done just that. If you donât want to earn belts or rank thatâs fine but itâs not for you to decide whether or not other people should or shouldnât want to earn belts or rank. We should all realize that weâre going to have different goals and ambitions and we should accept that and respect other peopleâs choices, even if theyâre different from ours.
Now some people mightâve got the impression that Iâve got an obsession with the black belt due to posts Iâve made in the past. Specifically, it was obsession with getting a black belt under Sensei Yonny. Thatâs what I was obsessed with, getting a black belt under Sensei Yonny and getting it within a specific time frame, specifically before I turned 20. Getting a black belt at another dojo or by some other means just wouldnât be the same as getting it under Sensei Yonny. So as some people suggested buying a black belt or having one mailed to me wouldnât work because number one, that would be cheating, and number two, Sensei Yonny didnât give or sell you a black belt if you havenât first passed the test because to get a black belt under Sensei Yonny you have to have adequate skill and by passing the test thatâs how you show you have adequate skill. So thatâs what the black belt was all about, knowing that I have the proper skill and ability to meet Sensei Yonnyâs standards for the belt, not about coming into possession or wearing a black piece of cloth.
So anyway, one of the things that really got on my nerves and why I kept beating a dead horse as some people put it, was because some people kept saying that you shouldnât talk to your head sensei about what you need to do to get your next belt, including the black belt if thatâs next, and that was the mistake I made. I didnât talk to Sensei Yonny about how the test worked and what I needed to do to be able to test. So people kept saying that I shouldâve made the mistake I made, but it was because I made such a mistake why I didnât get a black belt under Sensei Yonny when I wanted to. But people kept missing the point and they kept saying you shouldnât talk to your head sensei, so thatâs why I kept beating a dead horse as some people put it.
So thatâs where I was coming from with all the posts Iâve made in the past regarding belts of rank and this is my position on belts and rank now, I hope this clears everything up.
So for students of the martial arts who donât have any desire to gain belts or rank, thatâs their choice and I respect that. The problem is when people push their choices on other people, when they say other people should make the same choice as them. I wonât mention any names but some of the people on this forum have done just that. If you donât want to earn belts or rank thatâs fine but itâs not for you to decide whether or not other people should or shouldnât want to earn belts or rank. We should all realize that weâre going to have different goals and ambitions and we should accept that and respect other peopleâs choices, even if theyâre different from ours.
Now some people mightâve got the impression that Iâve got an obsession with the black belt due to posts Iâve made in the past. Specifically, it was obsession with getting a black belt under Sensei Yonny. Thatâs what I was obsessed with, getting a black belt under Sensei Yonny and getting it within a specific time frame, specifically before I turned 20. Getting a black belt at another dojo or by some other means just wouldnât be the same as getting it under Sensei Yonny. So as some people suggested buying a black belt or having one mailed to me wouldnât work because number one, that would be cheating, and number two, Sensei Yonny didnât give or sell you a black belt if you havenât first passed the test because to get a black belt under Sensei Yonny you have to have adequate skill and by passing the test thatâs how you show you have adequate skill. So thatâs what the black belt was all about, knowing that I have the proper skill and ability to meet Sensei Yonnyâs standards for the belt, not about coming into possession or wearing a black piece of cloth.
So anyway, one of the things that really got on my nerves and why I kept beating a dead horse as some people put it, was because some people kept saying that you shouldnât talk to your head sensei about what you need to do to get your next belt, including the black belt if thatâs next, and that was the mistake I made. I didnât talk to Sensei Yonny about how the test worked and what I needed to do to be able to test. So people kept saying that I shouldâve made the mistake I made, but it was because I made such a mistake why I didnât get a black belt under Sensei Yonny when I wanted to. But people kept missing the point and they kept saying you shouldnât talk to your head sensei, so thatâs why I kept beating a dead horse as some people put it.
So thatâs where I was coming from with all the posts Iâve made in the past regarding belts of rank and this is my position on belts and rank now, I hope this clears everything up.