You know god gave us a mind to evaluate everything our life has to offer, what one may see as a problem other see's as a value. With that being said if you do not like what the cook is cooking than leave the kitchen, it really is that simple. Just for the record I personally cannot seeing demandind any of my students to do a tournament, I will suggest and tell them why I believe it is good for them but bottom line is they need to make that decission.