Having been through this as a parent, I know first hand that parent involvement is crucial in the development of YOUR child. Teachers are not baby sitters, especially where teens are concerned. We have to be involved with our kids, because it is an investment in their future. Thanks to my wife, our two kids could read when they hit kindergarten. I know, you will say, "it is the teachers job", NOT. You, as a parent, had their attention for 5-6 years before they hit school. These are the
formative years, get them away from the TV, monitor their time, like you cared, get some books in the house and read to them before they learn to say NO. Make sure they are involved with well grounded grown ups, because the saying goes, "caught more then taught" from the time they can walk. Give them some structure along with some play time, and above all be their guide, not their friend.
Now, you have given the teachers something to work with. Now if they can't do their dam* job, now you can bitc* about it.
On the other hand, teachers are parents just like we are, some good, some bad. But the bottom line is INVOLVEMENT. The choice is simple, take the bull by the horns, because, by the time they hit 3rd grade, you have lost them to the system. Once they hit their teen years forget it,
your a parent,
someone from another world. Been there, done that,
NO REGRETS.