Hi,
i would like to know what is the best way to open a street fight.
because my friends are always playing fight, and i would also like to be good when it comes to self defence...
PS: perferly muay thai style...
You've actually asked three different questions,
young_thai. So, I'll answer all three for you.
1) How to open a street fight: Apologize to the guy, even if it's his fault. Something like,
Sorry, did I do something to offend you? Didn't mean to. I have escaped many violent encounters this way, and had several street-savvy fighters who were would-be opponents say,
Wow, I've never had this happen before. On the other hand, starting a violent confrontation will probably get you locked up and sued in civil court. And my career is teaching young men who have done this very thing, and know all about how to start a street fight. For those who've been locked up several times and grown tired of it, they would agree the better question is, How can I avoid a street fight? Doesn't mean they're punks. Just the opposite. Means they're becoming men.
2) Play fighting is bad for two reasons: (1) It's nothing like the real thing, so will give you a false sense of what raw, rage-filled violence on the street entails. (2) It can start as fun, then someone takes offense and it turns serious. I've seen many teens who were best friends become deadly enemies this way.
3) Your last question is the one that has the most merit to me. Self defense is as far from 'starting a street fight' or 'play fighting' as you can get. So, by all means, if you like Muay Thai, find a good instructor and commit. Don't quit when it's not fun on some days. And become good at it--give it at least 6-9 months before making any changes. This will resolve your first two questions before you know it.
Best wishes in your quest. :asian:
~kidswarrior
