HighKick
Master Black Belt
I agree with a concealed weapon being the best weapon for the average, non-trained civilian. But I also agree, this can be where things can go wrong, and some people get a false sense of over-confidence without understanding the consequences.The years I spent as a cop, hanging around other cops and having cops as friends had a major effect on my ideas of threat analysis and self defense. Any martial artist regardless of skill is still the underdog against a knife attack. I always have a knife(s) and a cane with me outside the house, but I'm under no illusion I could prevail in such situations.
A concealed firearm is the best weapon for defense normally available to the average civilian. One should never under any circumstances allow those around him to discover he's "packin' heat". There are those who would then push the carrier just to see what it would take to make him pull the pistol. Anyone who carries needs to know they'll likely have to take abuse in this situation, up to and including a fist. Since a firearm should never be drawn unless it is to be fired or the decision to be ready to fire it already made, it is vital that life or severe injury be at stake. Otherwise prosecution/jail time awaits. Being so armed is like being presented with the "nuclear option". What would it take to turn (words/threats) into life or death.
In contrast, a person with good MA's, SD, or combat experiences has a much better understanding of the consequences. At the very least in the short term.
Can most any person be trained to carry responsibly? Yes, I think so. Are there outliers in virtually everything? Absolutely. Something we cannot 100% factor out no matter how hard we try to regulate through government action, etc...
I often see this in programming. The more complicated the process, the greater the possibility for unexpected results.
Worrying about 'taking abuse' is very much the counter-logic to concealed carry being better than open carry. If a person carrying concealed is going to get rattled just because someone discovers they are carrying, then maybe they should not carry in the first place. Or they need more training, experience, and/or reason to carry.
There is a deep, deep responsibility when carrying, far more than the 'opinion' of others. You make a great point about when a gun should be drawn, but there is an immense difference between carrying and drawing.
And let's be real, carrying a weapon is Not analogous to a nuclear option.