Agreed... on that note I'll say that a word is only as bad as a person wants it to be, whether they hear it or say it.So we can see the realtion of how Gay,Fag,F a g g o t came into the meaning in slang use today.
If people want to use the word gay as an adjective knock yourself out.
But the usage of gay as an adjective is coming from the noun use gay which as my previous dictionary definition slang term is used in a homophobic manner.
But I presented my point and I bow out from this thread enjoy.