Hello all. I know there have been threads before on this subject but I want to get your opinions on wether or not there is an appropriate age that a student should be promoted to black belt? Should anyone under the age of 18 be required to be a junior black belt and learn a modified cirriculum in the system they are in? The reason I ask is because we are seeing more and more young black belts who may not be mature enough to carry the responsibility associated with the rank they now wear. Let me back this up by an example. A teenager that I know was recently promoted to black belt. We were at a gathering over the holidays and what I witnessed disgusted me. At this gathering someone was sitting in a chair that he wanted to sit in. After a verbal exchange the person in the chair refused to move which he should have done. In anger the he grabbed the person in the chair by the neck and removed him. I was shocked at what I saw. It made me wonder if giving this individual a black belt has "just given the gun to the baby" for lack of a better phrase. There are other instances of where this same person has displayed actions that an older black belt may not display. Any thoughts? What should be done to someone like this ? Are there other instances like this or am I being a little to picky in my expectations of a black belt?
In the spirit of bushido!
Rob
I'll address this post in 2 parts. As far as the rank issue goes...IMO, I just can't justify a 9yo walking around with a BB. Why do we see that? Because people start kids at 4yrs old, so after 5yrs, the parents are expecting their child to be a BB. Sorry, but I seriously doubt that the 9yo is executing things perfectly. Even if they were, lets do the math. If we follow the typical rank progression, technically, by the time that child is in their teens, they can have a high BB rank. When I say typical, I'm referring to 2 yrs between 1st and 2nd, 2-3 for 3rd, etc. Honestly, what would anyone think if they walked into a school and saw a 18yo 6th degree BB? I know I'd turn around and walk back out the door.
I think that a Jr. BB is a good thing. Unfortunately in todays world, its not about the time and hard work, but instead keeping up with Johnnys friend who started at the same time. Heaven forbid his friend passes him up. Its not about how well someone can defend themselves, but what color belt and how many stripes. Therefore, a Jr BB is good because it still allows the child to continue learning the material for a full BB, while at the same time, not giving them the actual rank.
Now, as far as the kid who threw the other out of the chair. Now, there have been many times at a function, where I've gotten up, only to have my chair taken by another guest. I usually end up just standing and don't say anything. So my chair was taken...big deal. Personally that kid sounds like a punk and should watch himself, because one day, he may try that on the wrong person and be in for a surprise. IMO, he has some anger management issues.