Well, the thing many have to undertand about Martial Arts teachers are "WE ARE JUST PEOPLE TOO" many of us work normal jobs and teach on the side because we enjoy it. Many of us, enjoy going out and having a beer just like the other guy.
Many of us have relationship problems too.. So if some of that carries over in class, its not suppossed to but it does happen im sure. many of us know how to check ego's and seperate personal business from MARTIAL ARTS Business.
Anyway, i've been fortunate to be surrounded and have studied under the best teachers. I've become really close w/ many of them and spend alot of time as friends in and outside the training hall.
I've found that my teachers were people just like I was saying. One of my TKD teachers enjoyed to PARTY!!! I mean really PARTY!! He enjoyed getting high and drinking pretty heavily. I didn't like it, but i did't judge him either. HE was a tremendous martial artist and very gifted. His school has sent many to the championship levels.
My Karate sensei was a factory worker and he used to scream, yell, and actually physically be rough on us when we messed up. Was it fair? NO!! My dad thought it was the greatest thing.. He used to encourage our Sensei to straighten me out because he couldn't do it. LOL.. so although I didn't like it, It really made me a stronger person.. I grew to miss him greatly when he left teaching tomove w/ his job.
My Kali Guro was very rough. He enjoyed inflicting pain and speaking profanity. He was and is def a serious practicioner of the arts. He don't hesitate to drop you in your stance if he feels your not listening or paying attention.
My Guro still teaches, he may be older in his 70's but he still keeps to his roots. he will still scold you and or kick your butt if you act out. LOVE HIM!!
My other teachers Hanshi of my Karate, is very laid back and extremely kind. He never raised his voice and or ever showed a side of anger in class. He carried himself to be too nice. But in result to this his class was very loose and alot of students didn't pay alot of attention in class. His school has closed because I think he just got tired of teaching..
so how do I teach? I teach much like a mixture of all my teachers. I am relaxed, yet I am very kinda hard headed w/ my students jus ask them. I believe in pain compliance and if they do something wrong or if i say "block this" I try to take thier head off and if they don't stop it, I hit them.. its that simple...
Just today I was doing a strike w/ my student and asked him to counter it and if he didn't stop me I was coming thru him.. boy he thoght I was kidding I guess. I cought him in the nose and bloodied his nose! But thats jus howI teach.. brutal ? I don't think so... if you can't block a strike or counter a strike in training, you aren't gonna do it in the street..