Rumy73
Black Belt
The issue is that it's not an "either/or" thing ("either teach girls SD, or tell guys not to rape."), it's a "both/and" thing ("we teach both our girls SD AND our boys to not rape."). We (as a society) need to teach our daughters self-defense AND teach our sons that "no means no." Each need to be taught because the message, "no means no," is not making it into the heads of many guys. We have to teach both genders.
Great points. Also to add conversations about alcohol and trusting people too much. If we are talking about rapes on campus, I bet my last dollar that most are connected to drinking rather than a random assault.