I do understand that some autistic behavior comes across as "bratty" and I also understand (to some degree) the processing issues that someone with autism faces.
That is why I prefaced my statements the way I did. I am in NO WAY saying that autistic behavior is bratty behavior. I was talking about a kid who was sometimes bratty and the mother refused to deal with it. Also, the more I read about autism and the other things on the spectrum, the more I noticed that his behavior DID NOT match any of the things that were listed as autistic behaviors and processing issues. The family doctor suggested something to look into and never made a diagnosis. She chose to use that label for many years until I talked her into getting him taken to a specialist so she could get an IP into place with his school. When she finally did take him to a doctor, both of them agreed after testing that it was not an autistic issue.
I guess my point is this, there is a HUGE increase in the diagnosis for Autism. Is it due to better testing methods? I think so. Is it due to some other causation that we don't understand? I think so. (Many people scoff, but I have known two people whose kids were diagnosed with autism and they put them on a special diet and there are now no signs of it). Are there some misdiagnosis, or people trying to get their kid labeled as such? I think so. Unfortunately, I know of people who try and get their child labeled "learning disabled" for various reasons because the state of Michigan will give you around $600 a month.
Education is the key and people need to understand both sides of this argument for it to be cleared up and people to learn and understand what autism is.