For every so many gender identity- and sexual orientation-grounded individuals in the world (to include school, college, workplace, grocery store, bar, dojang, wherever) there are one or two individuals in crisis. Parents will be parents and most of them wish to pound every peg they see into a round hole - especially if those "pegs" sprang forth from their loins.
However, for many of these "different" kids, the outside influence is ALL THEY HAVE - especially when they must cling to a pamphlet that tells them they are o-kay, that they're not alone, they're not an abomination or the devil's work, or confused or going to grow out if it. Most these kids don't have friend one.
I suppose what I'm saying is that everybody deserves a dish of hope, a helping of understanding and more than just a little tolerance. Especially on such a difficult and very personal part of one's identity and at such a very difficult period of growth.
Our children are our hope - only hope - for the future. There are much worse things we could be teaching them than tolerance, patience, humility and understanding.
My .02.
However, for many of these "different" kids, the outside influence is ALL THEY HAVE - especially when they must cling to a pamphlet that tells them they are o-kay, that they're not alone, they're not an abomination or the devil's work, or confused or going to grow out if it. Most these kids don't have friend one.
I suppose what I'm saying is that everybody deserves a dish of hope, a helping of understanding and more than just a little tolerance. Especially on such a difficult and very personal part of one's identity and at such a very difficult period of growth.
Our children are our hope - only hope - for the future. There are much worse things we could be teaching them than tolerance, patience, humility and understanding.
My .02.