Heretic, you really need to discuss these issues you have with someone more knowledgable.
Contrary to what you might like to believe, I do not have "issues" with any of this.
I'm not really a fundamentalist in the way you seem to think I am. I don't even regularly attend church presently (I have my own reasons I'd rather not get into).
All I have is faith.
A fundamentalist, in the way I am using the term, is someone who holds to sociocentric values (i.e., that the segment of humanity they belong to is "chosen" or "saved" or "the elect") and subscribes to a "blind" faith in the absolute truth of their religious texts and doctrines. Another term commonly used is literalist.
From what I have seen, you certainly seem to fall into that categorization.
If it is all a fantasy, at least it is a pleasant one: that there is a Creator, with a personality, that knows me and so loved me, that He sent his only begotten Son to pay my debt so I could be saved.
It seems so at first glance and there are certainly worst fantasies to subscribe to, but....
What most people don't realize is that, for all the posturing of evangelicals, mythic-literal belief structures are still highly narcissistic and self-important in nature. With the archaic-instinctual worldview, the individual orients him or herself solely on physical sensations and motor responses (typical of infants). With the magical-animistic worldview, this prior narcissism is lessened as the individual realizes there is a world "out there", but this world is still fused with the individual ego. As a result, the individual believes that the world changes in response to his or her impulses and wishes, thus resulting in a belief in "magic", and preconsciously projects his or her subjective impulses out into the world, thus resulting in a belief in animistic "spirits" within inanimate objects.
With the mythic-literal orientation, this narcissism is severely lessened as one no longer directly manipulates the world with magical wish-fulfillment. Instead, one petitions a deity figure with prayer and rites to indirectly change the world or gather information about the world. However, this structure is still very self-centered in that the deity "favors" certain people over others on the basis of a set of rules society has created, absolutizes the social values of one's in-group into universal status, and is extremely rigid in terms of its "us vs them" dichotomy.
Mythical sociocentrism is certainly not as egocentric as magical animism, but it is still quite immature and narcissistic compared to reason (which has its own problems, but we needn't get into that here).
And what is so bad about treating people like you would want to be treated?
Nothing, but the Golden Rule is not the property of Christians. It is an ethical principle common to many religious and philosophical systems.
If I am crazy to believe in what you call a fantasy belief, at least it is a harmless insanity, ne?
Actually, ethnocentrism and sociocentrism can be quite dangerous, depending on the circumstances and opportunties available. In the United States, one needn't look farther than such controversies as abortion, gay marriage, stem cell research, global warming, and intelligent design to see proof of this.
As it currently stands, religious fundamentalism has been very harmful to our society in recent years.
Beats the heck out of "Do what thou wilt" and hedonism, IMO
Which, of course, has nothing to do with my position.
Have a good one.