Firstly, it could be said that if you get your fists out you've failed with 90+% of what defence should mean...
Going on from that, MA for self defence is usually about subjugation and/or escape.
Many Martial Artists and weapon carriers are taught deescalation techniques to avoid conflict. However, you can try to deescalate which is a great option, but still must defend yourself regardless. If we're talking about some guy you brushed shoulders with, then deescalation has a good chance of working. However, when it's a dedicated attacker(mugger, murder, rapist, kidnapper), deescalation will most likely not work. Unfortunately, some situations require use of force.
I was addressing your logic of "because it hasn't happened to me yet, thus
I have no need for it". The point I made was, some people don't want to wait to see if it happens, some are more proactive.
Carrying a blade or a gun is up from there, it's no longer subjugation but dominance and destruction
Lawfully carrying a firearm
is about self-defense. Responding with lethal force doesn't mean the carrier is more interested in shooting someone than they are about defending themselves. It means they are neutralizing the threat(self-defense) with lethal force against the attack directed at them.
Oddly, I can imagine the kind of response someone would get if they asked which art they should study to be able to kill anyone that confronts them with their bare hands - "I wanna be totes street lethal innit", or "what's the best way to break someone's neck?".
Your example is on the extreme side of the spectrum though. Already stated before, there are situational parameters for lawful use of a firearm, you can't just shoot someone for asking you what time is it. Many lawful weapon carriers are responsible individuals that understand the ramifications for using their firearm recklessly.
They would probably be ridiculed and told that's not what is considered self defence - and some of the people doing that would be the ones carrying guns...
Is it? How many MA styles have lethal techniques? I study Kali which is a weapons based system. Does that mean I'm only interested in stabbing people to death because I know how to use a knife?
In many countries those two are mutually exclusive. Carrying weapons isn't legal however proficient you are.
I know, I wanted to clarify the group I was referring to were trained with firearms in the US.
It does often seem like that though when you read what people say about why they want to carry a gun. It would appear in the UK as well as most of Europe and I suspect Australia as well as New Zealand to be not just paranoid but dangerous. To all our perceptions carrying weapons 'just in case' seems unnecessary because of the way we live, our countries and well, just everything. To us living in a country where you think you have to carry weapons is unimaginable. this is why I think so many comment on the 'gun thing' in the US, we simply cannot imagine doing it so it's weird to us.
Referring to reading people's reasons for carrying, there is a mixed bag when it comes to any group. I acknowledge that some who carry have different reasons than I might have. However, the overwhelming majority who lawfully carry are responsible.
To feel you have to carry weapons is something that many in the rest of the world don't understand at all and seems verging on madness or living in a war torn country hence there are many comments that weapon carrying people won't like or in turn don't understand.
I understand that people differ on the issue. However, when one actively questions people about it they in turn will get answers that they may not like either. Keeping it a discussion and preventing it from turning into an argument is the challenging part. I think one or both sides seeming more enlightened than the other is also a problem.
What led me to that is my interpretation of the OP being along the lines of "I must carry a weapon at all times, everyone is a threat"...
I don't see how "Is carrying a baton a good option to defend in rough situation, lets say you get attacked and you need to react to save yourself." can be interpreted that way.
It saddens me that some people's experience of their society leads them to see danger everywhere and need a weapon to feel a bit more secure.
It's not about seeing danger where ever you go, it's a precaution some take to prepare for a potential worst case scenario. Again, not everyone who carries have been victimized, some choose not to wait to see if and when it happens.