That's all well said, and I really do see your perspectives. But what about the long range outcome of military actions like these?
It's not about who hit who first, or if the Syrians are really "bad guys." It's about the perception that the United States, which is supposed to be a world leader/power, is a moral and intelligent country.
In terms of "taking the fight to the enemy's turf" no one ever said that Syria was anyone's enemy. They're not official bad guys. That's like saying the American presence in the Middle East is a "civil war" since there was a single American guy (
John Walker Lindh) fighting against the US. That's kind of ridiculous, right? The actions of a few do not account for the rest of their home population.
Again, I'd like to reiterate that this is only the tip of the iceberg. There will be an official American statement on the subject as the world flares up over this incident.
Maybe those children killed are insurgents, fleeing to Syria. That's very likely, considering the style of fighting that the insurgents practice. However, we need to find proof. As the nation that apparently takes the "high road" we need to prove our actions tenfold in comparison to the groups that we fight... As Americans, we need to see beyond our instincts to immediately fight back. We need to think.
Or we're just stuck looking for WMD's (or here be dragons!) all over again.