What's your fantasy fighting situation?

[Bee Brian]

Dude, if porn is good for one thing, it's demonstrating that they're not that rare...or unattainable.

You're saying porn stars and strippers are EASY?

lol

Trust me. Those women operate in a whole different paradigm. And they're not proud of what they're doing. Whatever reason they do what they do, or did what they did, is their own. But although they're probably ashamed of it, you can't deny that they know a certain element of men like the back of their hands.

I've dealt with them before. Never slept with a prostitute myself, nor have I paid for a lapdance, but I've met women who had a similar mindset. It's not an easy life.

 

[Bee Brian]

well yes, thers girls as nice as that in every bar in town on a sataday night, that even allowing they wont look as nice with out with out a makup artist and a pro photographer, celebs are fake, they dont really look like that on a sunday morning.

so im guessing your computer dating, , youve akready ruled out the atraxtive ones, when they have refused to meet you based on them being shallow and only going off your looks

attraction is important but its not the most important think in selectibg a parner

I've used Tinder once. Never gonna use it again.

I run my game in bars or cafes. I once got a date with a girl I met while she was working in Subway.

Like I said in a previous post, as much as I'd like a partner in my life who is attractive, it's not what I look for. It's all about the conquest. I'll die alone and spouseless, but my memories will stay with me forever.

 

[jobo]

I've used Tinder once. Never gonna use it again.

I run my game in bars or cafes. I once got a date with a girl I met while she was working in Subway.

Like I said in a previous post, as much as I'd like a partner in my life who is attractive, it's not what I look for. It's all about the conquest. I'll die alone and spouseless, but my memories will stay with me forever.

to be honest, im not cobvinced this isnt just one of your fantasies, , man turned down by women by the drove convinces himself that they wernt good enough for him and he is the one doing the picking, ive met a good few like that in my time

im not at all good looking by celeb standards, but picking up women who work in coffee bars is child play even for me and yes even a nice girl in the subway and the chinese takeaway,

its really not so difficult proposition, that you need to work a game, just smile at people and they will start talking to you if they are interested, slip you their phone number or just straight out ask you for a date

surveying them like prey on the serengeti and leering at the them doesnt work half as well


a few years ago, i went out with the most atractive girl id ever been in the same room with, she was working where i worked and all the other blokes were just letching at her open mouthed as she walked by,, i smiled and actualy talked to her, s she walzed in to my office sat cross legged on my desk and ask me out, to see all the other blokes faces was priceless,


it didnt last very long, she left me for a premier legue footballer, but he was 25 yo younger and a millionare so i thought fair enough

 

[Bee Brian]

to be honest, im not cobvinced this isnt just one of your fantasies, , man turned down by women by the drove convinces himself that they wernt good enough for him and he is the one doing the picking, ive met a good few like that in my time

im not at all good looking by celeb standards, but picking up women who work in coffee bars is child play even for me and yes even a nice girl in the subway and the chinese takeaway,

its really not so difficult proposition, that you need to work a game, just smile at people and they will start talking to you if they are interested, slip you their phone number or just straight out ask you for a date

surveying them like prey on the serengeti and leering at the them doesnt work half as well

Bro, this a martial arts forum. It's not a contest of who has the better social graces.

To return the favor, I would have to say that I sincerely doubt that it is truly child's play for you to score at women in cafes and bars. I've seen other men do it. It was my world for many years of my life.

Calling the art easy is an amateur mistake. And really, like Karate and Krav Maga, you gotta respect the art. I'm far from a master. I'm a journeyman at best. But my game is solid. Of that I am sincere. The one thing that put my game to a whole new level is respecting that people have free will. I believe until a man truly understands the concept of free will, he will just be a mechanical seducer. And good women will see right through him.

I really do apologize for tooting my own horn but please, Jobo and everyone, I was put on the spot. I had to prove a point.

Sorry.

 

[jobo]

Bro, this a martial arts forum. It's not a contest of who has the better social graces.

To return the favor, I would have to say that I sincerely doubt that it is truly child's play for you to score at women in cafes and bars. I've seen other men do it. It was my world for many years of my life.

Calling the art easy is an amateur mistake. And really, like Karate and Krav Maga, you gotta respect the art. I'm far from a master. I'm a journeyman at best. But my game is solid. Of that I am sincere. The one thing that put my game to a whole new level is respecting that people have free will. I believe until a man truly understands the concept of free will, he will just be a mechanical seducer. And good women will see right through him.

I really do apologize for tooting my own horn but please, Jobo and everyone, I was put on the spot. I had to prove a point.

Sorry.

i repeat, its not difficult, if you find it difficult your not doing it right,

smile at them and well that it, if they are intrested they will let you know, if not drink your coffee

 

[Bee Brian]

a few years ago, i went out with the most atractive girl id ever been in the same room with, she was working where i worked and all the other blokes were just letching at her open mouthed as she walked by,, i smiled and actualy talked to her, s she walzed in to my office sat cross legged on my desk and ask me out, to see all the other blokes faces was priceless,


it didnt last very long, she left me for a premier legue footballer, but he was 25 yo younger and a millionare so i thought fair enough

I had a similar experience. But I don't consider myself a great seducer just because of that.

Women are far more sophisticated and multi-dimensional than men can ever comprehend.

Even Casanova was a slave to a woman he fell inlove with.

 

[Bee Brian]

i repeat, its not difficult, if you find it difficult your not doing it right,

smile at them and well that it, if they are intrested they will let you know, if not drink your coffee

HAH.

Bro, that's key. The art of the Approach is easy. And there are A MILLION ways to do it. Of course THAT'S easy. I'm only talking about THE RESULT. Getting more intimate with her beyond an initial smile is when the real test happens.

And each woman has her own way of filtering out men.

I could've dedicated my life into that art. It's full joys and sorrows. But I assure you, there comes a point in the journey when you do wonder if it is all worth it. It's just like learning any other art.

 

[jobo]

I had a similar experience. But I don't consider myself a great seducer just because of that.

Women are far more sophisticated and multi-dimensional than men can ever comprehend.

Even Casanova was a slave to a woman he fell inlove with.

no your nit understandibg mate

im not any kind of seducer, im an ordinary looking bloke, who goes round engaging with people and being happy and i get women ( and men )talking to me and sometimes asking me out, some times i take them up on it mostly i dont.





its not a game, its not collecting trophies its just my life

 

[Bee Brian]

no your nit understandibg mate

im not any kind of seducer, im an ordinary looking bloke, who goes round engaging with people and being happy and i get women ( and men )talking to me and sometimes asking me out, some times i take them up on it mostly i dont.

its not a game, its not collecting trophies its just my life

Yeah. Basically you hook up with women from your vast social circle like 95% of men.

 

[jobo]

Yeah. Basically you hook up with women from your vast social circle like 95% of men.

no, i make friends where ever i go, by being open and happy and talking to people,

i walk into a room of strangers,sit down smile at the people round me, and with in a couple of minets ive got some bloke asking me for marrage guidance or some girl telling me what a prat her boyfriend is or all about her last holiday or what ever

i just converse with people, well mostly i listen everyone loves a good listener.

the,secret such as it is is to look happy, they think you have the elusive secret of happyness, if you want to use that to get girls is upto you, i just like talkibg to people, the women come on their own

 

[Bee Brian]

no, i make friends where ever i go, by being open and happy and talking to people,

i walk into a room of strangers,sit down smile at the people round me, and with in a couple of minets ive got some bloke asking me for marrage guidance or some girl telling me what a prat her boyfriend is or all about her last holiday or what ever

i just converse with people, well mostly i listen everyone loves a good listener.

the,secret such as it is is to look happy, they think you have the elusive secret of happyness, if you want to use that to get girls is upto you, i just like talkibg to people, the women come on their own

Yeeeaah I've lost this argument.

 

[Bee Brian]

I wish I had a social circle.

Everyone needs one. But even if one doesn't, as long as he or she feels valued in his or her community, it should suffice. You got your friends here in Martial Talk.

 

[EdwardA]

Well, I like Yuna, but fantasy fighting...no thanks. I had a series of dreams once, a number of years ago, that John Rambo was coming after me with that big knife he had. Maybe 3-4 dreams. He kept coming. Eventually, I got the knife away from him and decapitated him. That ended that set of dreams. I have interesting Dreams sometimes. Always have.

For those of you who don't know who John Rambo is:

 

[EdwardA]

Here's Yuna. I used to have several UTube channels and came across this fantasy girl...done to great music.

 

[lklawson]

Yeah, I'm sure there are tons of Chinese women who look like that. lol

Perhaps you missed the joke. If the Chinese government thinks that you have access to classified information and are hot for some sexy Chinese caricature they the will arrange for one of their agents to "use her feminine wiles" to make sure both you and they get what they want.

I know for a fact that this has happened.

 

[elder999]

Perhaps you missed the joke. If the Chinese government thinks that you have access to classified information and are hot for some sexy Chinese caricature they the will arrange for one of their agents to "use her famine wiles" to make sure both you and they get what they want.

I know for a fact that this has happened.

I know a guy who lost his job at Los Alamos just that way......but she was Russian.

 

[KenpoMaster805]

Me my fantasy fighting would be fighting Chuck Norris and Bruce Lee and betraying them and beating them up

 

[Graywalker]

Ideal fantasy fight? Valhalla...yeah, battle all day, drink and bang all night...

Man, I hope Odin is real.

 

[Bee Brian]

Ideal fantasy fight? Valhalla...yeah, battle all day, drink and bang all night...

Man, I hope Odin is real.

Or you can spar with either MMA or boxing all day while having booze in the fridge with a wife or girlfriend.

 

[Graywalker]

Or you can spar with either MMA or boxing all day while having booze in the fridge with a wife or girlfriend.

The wife and the girlfriend yes, boxing and MMA all day...not my bag.