This thread is clearly a serious waste of beating one's head against a wall.
Martial Arts, include fencing, boxing, western wrestling, cane & baton, capoera, savate, krav maga, hisardut, systema, sambo, Brazilian jiu-jitsu, etc. do not require a "bow", but touching gloves, shaking hands, etc. is a sign of respect for an opponent. I think it should be culture specific and if you chose to participate in the art, then retain the traditions, which are of value. Humility, respect, honor, etc.
The arguments seems specious and a waste of perfectly good time and intelligence. Let's agree that someone defending their instructor, and chosen style, will do so adamantly, and follow, as do many students, the lead of their instructor. Each student is a reflection of the teacher as a mirror held before us. Use the mirror to improve and change ... or not. Hopefully with time and seasoning, a little different perspective, then the student can appreciate some of the traditions and instructors that helped shape his art.
Was that general enough, or was I being too politically correct? OK what I really think is that some students tend to follow their instructors with almost a cult-like following. I did a research paper on this in graduate school a couple of decades ago, and the transference and desire to please the teacher almost overwhelmingly, are the student looking for approval from a father or older brother figure. Remember when you are part of a group sharing the same beliefs, it is difficult to see how any of you can be doing anything wrong. Specifically, thumbing your nose at your own line of descent, and seniors in the art before you.
I am letting this one go now, but it obviously pushed one of my buttons, as I watch instructors I respect, self-promote to Grandmaster and opt to change the course of their art, not withstanding that they may be excellent teachers and martial artists. Why seek approval, publicity, or controversy other than for your own ego?
This from an instructor who does not use contracts, and definitely has never been accused of running a McDojo.
NOTE: This was to have followed Hollywood's post > Obviously I was not the only one who felt like JudoKids' post reflected poorly on his art, himself, and his instructor.
-Michael Billings