How long have you boxed? You write like a TMA theorizing.
as someone who came on asking for advice, your rather belligerent to the people giving advice
i spend some time coaching young men in boxing, if im a good coach is another matter, but boxing isnt that complicated
mr bolt has a reaction time of about a tenth of a second,
any thing below that is considered super human and a false start
a half second is ponderously slow, most people are between the two, but there are quite a lot of athletic young men who are around the 2 tenths mark
obviously their reaction time start at the moment they predict you punch, not at the moment you throw it. if they predict wrongly, then you should hit them, which is where the deceptiveness come in, if they predict correctly then you just look very very slow, they have moved almost before the punch is thrown
your experiences with this bout is difficult to analysis with out seeing it, despite what BD says
if the guy has just got faster reactions than you, given an aprox skill level, he will out jab you, theres little to be done but go away and work on your reaction speed,
if your helping him by telegraphing your intention and or being predictable then thats an area of improvement for you
but once you have got your self on a level playing field, the speed of the punch is still crucial, it needs to travel faster than his ability to react, so that nominally 2 tenths of a second, thats generally why jabs land so often, thers no set up moving to tip him off,they are the fastest punch and the laws of kinetics also say that the faster an object is moving through space the more force they impart, now boxing is a bit more complex than simple objects colliding, but not that much and an increase in terminal velocity will impart more force
provided your fast enough to hit him at all