**WARNING **
Sensitive viewers may find the following conversation will make your brain hurt. In some extreme cases your brain may explode.
So to recap,
(Wiki)
"a force is any interaction that, when unopposed, will change the motion of an object. In other words, a force can cause an object with mass to change its velocity (which includes to begin moving from a state of rest), i.e., to accelerate. Force can also be described by intuitive concepts such as a push or a pull. A force has both magnitude and direction, making it a vector quantity. It is measured in the SI unit of newtons and represented by the symbol F.
The original form of Newton's second law states that the net force acting upon an object is equal to the rate at which its momentum changes with time. If the mass of the object is constant, this law implies that the acceleration of an object is directly proportional to the net force acting on the object, is in the direction of the net force, and is inversely proportional to the mass of the object"
F=M V. Or is it. F=M*V or F=M*A
is your position that velocity is the primary factor?
P=M V. So is force and momentum the same thing? Or does force create momentum?
Velocity is easy to measure. How do you calculate mass? Is it the arm it self? (cut it off and throw it at the guy) or do you figure in the delivery system as well?