Slippery_Pete said:
Has anyone ever opted out of testing for the next rank because they thought they were not ready, even though the instructor wants them to and feels they deserve the next rank?
I think it is interesting that your signature quote, which appears to be your student oath, addresses this issue:
"I promise, on my oath, that I will never dishonor the spirit of TaeKwonDo training that my instructor has generously given me.
I will respect my parents, fellow students, and instructors and follow their advice and guidelines. I will endeavor to be a champion of freedom and justice and work towards building a more peaceful world. Honor, above all else, shall be my code."
When students recite this oath, do they believe in it? Do the follow it, or is it just a bunch of words? I guess, if you respect your instructors, and "follow their advice," then you will test when they recommend you to test. Personally, I have never backed down from a test, but I have seen it done, and have had several students over the years approach me with similar concerns. After a short conversation, I usually determine that it is a lack of self confidence, and mental fears which I help to reassure them that I would not recommend them if they were not ready, so they ultimately go ahead and test.
Many yeas ago, one of my senior, fellow Black Belts had the opportunity to test for his 3rd Dan in the ATA. We were at the testing in Lansing, Michigan, with the ATA president, Grandmaster Haeng Ung Lee (9th Dan) as the Chief Judge, and Vice President Master Robert Allemire (then a 5th Dan - now 8th Dan), as a judge. My friend began his test and faultered a bit on his form (he could actually do it perfectly). They asked him what was wrong, and he said he didn't feel he was ready to test. They dismissed him and he dressed out - never to test again. My jaw hit the floor, because I could not imagine someone passing up such an opportunity, and he was definately capable of passing with flying colors.
Whoever it is that you are asking this question for (yourself or someone else), I say, move past the mental blocks, uncertainties, and take the challenge. . . what can it hurt? :lookie: As we used to say in the Army,
"1st Platoon, ROUGH and TOUGH, HARD to bluff, DRIVE ON, Drill Sergeant, DRIVE ON . . . BE PROUD!" :ultracool
CM D. J. Eisenhart