Heh, I hope this link works:
http://forum.lowcarber.org/showthread.php?t=377191
As you can see there are a lot of competing schools of thought on diet and working out, even with low carbers. But one consistent thing I noticed is that nobody recommended going low cal.
You've tried the mainly carbs approach, have you tried the low carb approach? I can testify that it works wonders. I am on Atkins this fall, but transitioning to a Paleo low carb diet as I've noticed that grains and dairy are not my pals. My health has never been better, not even as a teenager, and
I just turned 40. There's a lot of other benefits to this way of life, but I won't bore you with a long list, let's just say it's surprising how, besides weight loss, low carbing has cleared up other problems like insomnia and ear infections. I'm looking forward to continuing my weight loss and increasing my strength and effectiveness in the Martial Arts.