Steve
Mostly Harmless
This is interesting. I don't think I'd ever want to make friends with my attacker. I have no interest in that, and personally, I don't understand why anyone would want to be friends with someone who attacks them? As I said, I would prefer to avoid ruthless people altogether, if given the choice.i said, i'm not a mean person. if i could survive being attacked by making friends with my attacker i would. but i'd be dead.
You're welcome.i am not a fighter. i don't look for trouble. but when my life or the life of someone i love are in danger, i am not at all concerned with being 'a nice guy'.
that is why i originally said 'meanness' is a subject worhty of ponder, i was implying that one must consider the brutal reality of having to use damaging technique, and understanding what it takes to call that out of yourself at a moment's notice.
hate is not the same thing. a lion does not hate a gazelle. a fox does not hate a rabbit. nature employs savage cruelty all the time, yet i seriously doubt any creature other than human beings have ever experienced hate.
thank you for bringing up that distinction, it is important.