lonecoyote
Brown Belt
I just don't have access to a school nearby. Closest one is an hour away and if I'm going to drive an hour, I might just as well drive a couple to the nearest city, trouble is, with work, and scheduling problems, I can't make a four hour plus round trip drive plus two or three times a week. What I can do is make arrangements in a great city where I've got some relatives, and can make it every couple of weeks. Here are my problems making such arrangements-not every martial art is suited to this kind of thing. There is a JKD/Kali guy who was recommended to me by someone on the board but to be honest, there isn't a whole lot of point because I will have no one to do the myriad stick, blade and they do some sticky hands too, stuff with. That's tough with noone to train with. I'm thinking something with forms, perhaps two man forms I can work on both sides of til meeting with the instructor again. The other problem I find is with instructors. Quite a few are unable to accomodate the idea of having a student with my circumstances. I know and understand the shortcomings of learning this way, I certainly would rather my situation were otherwise, but this is the way things are for now. I find one of the main sticking points is that I might be outside of a belt system schedule some are very used to. I have done private lessons before and while some things are very tough to learn, other things go very, very fast. Basics and techniques come a lot quicker with the extra attention. Because things are a little different, I don't mind not being on the belt system at all, just interested in learning, say that to some instructors and they will look at you like you just grew another head. Any suggestions? I know that some traditional CMA have been taught private lesson style, and its not that uncommon, throughout CMA history. Thanks in advance for any replies to a tough question.